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  • More to the point why are you attracted to him. Where does your husband fit in? Either you should forget about your colleague or tell you husband first.
  • Your married. That's the point, you shouldn't be looking if you are already committed. It doesn't matter if he is attracted to you, you need to stay committed by saying no. There isn't any point saying much more.
  • There are both sides of the coins, he might be not having a girlfriend and you seem to have less feeling and kind love towards your husband.
  • I think you are stupid. If you are no longer interested in your husband get a divorce. How would you like your husband, being commited to YOU and you are still interested, hangin out with somebody from his work the way you are? I think you are an old woman with stupid decisions.
  • He is attracted to you for the same reason that you're attracted to him. I guess you mean a sexual attraction, and not a mere fondness. It's your personal chemistry which is at work. It's something you cannot prevent, but can only control or suppress. Such "raw" attraction between indivduals is blind to age, looks, marital status, and economic status. It's a passion which consumes you day in and day out, and which you cannot get yourself to rid of, nor, to be honest, do you really want to. So long as both of you behave that there is even a faint glimmer of hope of things PERHAPS developing further, you will have to live with this mental torment. On the other hand if you want to terminate it, you might talk it over openly and bring this "fanciful flirtation" to an amiable end, as something which you would have liked to pursue if circumstances were different. What you do about it is entirely up to you.
  • I think the more important question would be; Why is your husband attracted to you? I don't know you but from the question and comments you have made you seem like a self-centred woman experiencing a mid-life crisis of some sort. The fact that the age difference takes precedent in your question over your marriage highlights this.
  • He was horny and you seemed vulnerable. Some women going through tough times in a marriage attract that type. Just my opinion.

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