How does a Loner like me find a girlfriend? I don't have any friends at my university. And my university is predominately male. I don't do the club scene. I find it hard to keep friends. And I've never dated anyone before. But I don't want to be alone.
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terrig
ANSWERS: 10
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internet dating.
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Why in the world do you have this posted in gay?
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Just persue your own interests whatever they are. Eventually you will meet someone doing the same and viola, relationship.
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Make friends at your university and keep your eyes open for any women who may be interested in you. try the online dating if you want, I never have but it could work out too.
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You must have SOME friends who know some girls or have sisters?
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Have confidence in yourself and your ability to be something a girl wants. Never be desperate. Get into something that girls will fawn over... Like breakdancing (thats what i do, and i get looks from girls ALOT ;D), or you could try and learn to sing, or learn to play guitar or a piano. Go out and have fun, make friends that are girls even if they arent your type they have friends who might take interest in u. Hope that helped ^_^
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Hey terrig, hi. What about some outdoor sport, maybe some kind of hiking club. Don't know about you, but I've always found it easier to get to know people outside in nature. What's that about the "hard to keep friends" part? Just curious.
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First of all, if you are a guy looking for a girlfriend, you might want to post this in a different forum - this one is for guys meeting guys! Next, can you join any clubs on campus that have lot of girls in them? Clubs are a great way to make friends if you want to avoid the club scene. Church is always a good place to meet girls. If you are away from home, you might have stopped attending church. Is there a church in the area of your university that has young ladies? You can always find that out by driving around Sunday morning! See what kind of projects they have going on the the ladies participate in. Also, hang around the student union hall where people congregate. If you see someone going something interesting, walk up and say "hi - whay are you working on?" and ofer to help.
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with me it was just luck really. Gve it some time and you might bump into someone. You could also find someone you could be frends with who might help you. Sorry If my answer was not that helpful.
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Check around and see if there is a Gay and Lesbian Center within a reasonable distance from you... That is a great place to get involved in activities that other Lesbians will also be likely to attend! They usually have meetings for different interests, to join, and often sponsor fun activities, picnics, parties, volunteer days for different causes, dances...just fun things and activities to meet other Lesbians or Gays who may share similar interests to yours! Keep in mind, however, if you feel you have challenges KEEPING friends you have made...why is that? Friendship is a two way street and if you are hard at work studying...that is understandable and a good use of your time and money...but in order to have friends, you have to also be a friend... Cheers! Good luck! All things in balance..and having FUN is an option!
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