Why are girls not attracted to me? I am an 18 year old black male, 5'5'', in college, and no one seems to be interested in me at all.. If anything, many think I'm 'creepy' and don't want anything to do with me.
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Niirvash
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Watch for mannerisms you may have picked up. If you come across as 'creepy', there has to be a reason. What do you do?
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Are you trying too hard? I ask because you said the girls think you're "creepy" sometimes trying too hard, trying to charm the girls, being a bit too forward sometimes or not giving the girl room to breathe, too much attention etc these can all come across as creepy and that is really off putting. Do you think that sounds like you? From your avatar you look like a good looking guy, you're in college so you got that going for you too, that creepy thing is the only clue you give.
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Chill out +3
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You don't look creepy. If you're clean, not a stalker, and have a good personality, you're lady is on her way...patience!
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I'm sure there are girls out there that are attracted to you, maybe you need to change the way you present yourself to the world. Even if you don't, there will be some who still do.
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Maybe it is the way you approach people. A friend of mine Tom was a great guy, once you gave him a chance, but had trouble with understanding personal space. He would get a little too close for women and it would scare them. Also, could it be that your hygene needs improving? A bath helps once in awhile. Do you have bad breath? Tom had that problem because of some type of nasal problem that was hereditary. I had to carry around mints so I could stand to talk to him at times...LOL He later had it fixed with his insurance. Ask someone you trust to give you an honest opinion. That might be a good first step.
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There is nothing creepy about your picture. Are you doing things that make other people uncomfortable? Just be yourself and you will attract like minded people to you. Be patient, make yourself happy and try and improve your schooling. That is what you are there for. Good luck. Also you will make friends on here.
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Find you a "cool" friend to hang out with. Try to meet new people in places where they just hang out, not just in class. You are still so young. It must be your first year in college. The first year you should just be finding your way around. The second year, be noticing the new freshman girls. The third year, girls will be noticing you for sure. The fourth year, you may have already found the girl of your dreams. Be patient and give yourself some time and encouragement. You have a lot going for you already---the fact that you are in college! Don't try to be serious too soon with anybody.
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First of all just be ur self (but not too much) second girls are attracted to guys with confidence (its not about how u look or what u do for living) and this one is very important (works with a 9yr girl to 99yr woman) be friendly and comfortable with them if u start freaking out she gets uncomfortable and u have to start feel good about ur self ok? i have friend he looks like shit! but everybody love him cause his talkative and he doesn't feel like his creepy or bla bla bla and yeah don't afraid of rejection i don't care if a girl rejects me or not i ask her out anyway, when u talk to a woman show her and mean it that ur enjoing the moment with her and the last thing show her that u care this isn't about opening door for them or...even saving her seat in the class will do it wow that was loong! D.R Nemesis online dating tips! :D
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