WHEN IS TIME YOU'LL KNOW. YOU REALLY SHOULDN'T WASTE IT ON A NOBODY, IT WILL BE MORE ENJOYABLE WITH THE ONE ITS TRULY MEANT TO BE WITH.

Do you really want to with him? Then, probably, yeah - but be real careful about getting pregnant. If you're not too sure, then don't - as you can always decide to sleep with him (or someone else) in the future - but you can't ever lose your viginity again!

Be patient....Remember, you can't be a virgin again if you do it and then regret. It's a special thing - believe me. It'll be one of your most memorable experiences...wouldn't you rather share that with someone that you know you had or even have a meaningful and committed relationship? Not only will you value it more, but your mate will too. Save it for the best...it's worth more than that.

i'm a 19 y/o male virgin and i would have to say you've been respected yourself to not sleep with anyone as of yet, why now? Especially if you don't see a future with him. What if children or std's come from this. Not quite what you're asking for, I'm sure. The final decision is yours of course, but I would personally wait until someone I see a future with comes along. Being a virgin isn't a bad thing...unless you're over 30. Good luck with whatever you decide. :)

You are a 21 yr old virgin who did not plan to be so and now you have someone who you want to sleep with and you are worried about what? Rip his clothes of and check it out, whats the problem?

Please Don't feel bad. I am a Man. and also a 34 year old virgin. I am from what I'm imaginig a Young lady wrote this for the sake of my response. Please Don't feel bad. I am a Man. and also a 34 year old virgin. I am from what alot of people say a very good looking man(actually got a "Wow" on the street the other day "Thank you very much") 6'1" 190 lbs. long black curly hair Dark eyes, Fit . I can Fix anything from cars to computers to Homes. I play just about every instrument(some of them very well) I actually got to this age as a virgin by accident. I was waiting for my fair princess(who was a bit younger than me) to return from school. where she "had no use for a man till she was done with as it would only be a distraction. The day after I was expecting her home I got an Email. "I'm flattered your still interested but I graduated sat.got married on sunday. Please dont contact me again .. As sad as that story may sound. and was for the first week or 2. I realize I'm back on the market. Looking for someopne with the same passion and conviction in Love. Imagine Starinng into eachothers eyes. Knowing God and our wonderful will has put us together. and no fear of lack or compromise is in our midst.weve waited for eachother. No one else to compare I know my Dream is out there. And here I am looking for her.. Is there a Virgin Dating site? Dont loose faith, Have a definate vision of what you want. Act when compelled,.. But never out of fear And please find someone to remind me this next time if ever I am scared or weak,.. Thank You

I think you should wait until you're with the one you see a possible future with. If you really don't see a future with him and you do sleep with him, he might start to see a future with you. I probably would if I was the guy.

don't until you find the man you want to be with the rest of your life and then not until your married

Do it for the experience since you said you don't see a future so just use him for sex. Yes you should have sex at 21 why wait to get any older you have no idea when your gonna die or get hit by a car that knocks your pussy into a coma. Do you really wanna end up like Susan Boyle? I don't think so get that guy in bed and have a good learning experience.

I am old fashion. The idea of saving it for that someone special is nice, but is old fashion. I do not believe is being promiscuous. Sex is a physical expression of an emotional and spiritual desire. You are linked, forever, on a spiritual level. That is why Satan loves it when people just meet and "do it." You have made it this long, I personally would think of that as a great accomplishment - something many do not achieve. I would feel bad if you got "banged-up" by a man that just bidda-boom, bidda-bam, thank-you mamm and then left you. Not that this guy would, but he could.