ANSWERS: 9
  • Focus on the love you have for you husband and your child. If your family chooses not to be apart of your love, that is their choice.
  • They are piss poor devotees of their faith. Give up. They have no love to give you. They love themselves and their own sick brains.
  • Give them time to come around.There are many other faiths with the same issues of marriage out of their faith.
  • Yeahb pretty much, you can't control or change stubborn people, especially religious ones.
  • They may never want to see the baby. I have two southern Baptists in my family who never make any attempt whatsoever to see the only two grandchildren they will ever have - my daughters. I ignore them and continue creating a happy, healthy life. They are aware we exist. If they want us, they have our number. +5
  • Enjoy your new baby, and accept the fact that his father's side will not be involved in his life. You may end up grateful that they did not pressure you into converting or otherwise try to impose their beliefs on you and the child.
  • Are you married to the father of your child?
  • start writing snail mail letters to the grandmother and share with her the family's events with pictures and your handwriting. do it every week. they might have extended family pride to deal with. Inwardly, the grandmother wants to know about her son's children. write about your family. dont write about religion.
  • I realize that this is very hurtful for you, but if they are going to so hostile, then you and your family are better off without them. If you still want to extend an olive branch, your husband could say, "I am very happy with my wife and new baby, and I am sorry that you're unwilling to share in my happiness." If that doesn't work, then just try to ignore them and work on building a happy, loving family together. Your life will be much more peaceful if they're not in it.

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