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Why should it make any difference? I've known many happy couples of all sizes and shapes. I've never thought anything weird or wrong about them. They love each other, had great lives, raised nice responsible kids, enjoyed each others company, what more do you want in life?
But if you are willing to break up with someone over something like this, then maybe you should since it doesn't seem to have any depth or real feelings for the person.
Yes, you should break up with him if you aren't mature enough to get past a difference in height you aren't ready for the real trials and issues that arise during a relationship.
WHY on EARTH would anyone wish to break up an otherwise perfectly good relationship solely because of any particular height difference?
My wife once told me she wouldn't heve considered dating me had I been shorter than her. Maybe so, maybe not. I don't think dating a servicemember was on her list when she was younger, either, but she certainly did that with me.
I think your opening statement: "I have a big problem..." says it all...this is something YOU have a problem with, and need to work out.
WHY do you think this is such a big problem for you?
get him some 5 cm./2in. heal shoes and rat his hair up some that will make you both the same in a mirror standing next to each other.
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You're reading I have a big problem and i really need someones advice.im around 1.75 and my boyfriend is around 1.69 i m taller than he is.he says that he dont cares for that but i do care i dont feel good about that.shuld i break up (i love him he loves me )or what?
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he wanted to date me 2 years ago and i sayed that we will still friends but i loved him and he loved me now after 2 years he wannted to date me again i acepted only cuz i love him more than everything else in the world but he is shorter and when we are together everyone looks at us :S:S that isnt a problem for him but for me is huge problem
by Anonymous on November 2nd, 2009
I think you need to get past the idea that everyone cares one way or another. They really don't and are more concerned over their own affairs. If anything, most people will think it's really something in a positive way, as something special about the two of you, not something bad. Like I said, what difference can it make? It means nothing. It doesn't take away from his masculinity, or make you seem like the boss or lead. Your relationship will be what you each make out of it. If he feels confident in it, then use his confidence to build up your own and trust him more.
by Galeanda on November 2nd, 2009
thanks a loot galeanda that really helps :D and others thanks a loot.I have 5 best friends and i ask them about this they say that i shouldn care but i know from them faces that they really dont think soo .
by Anonymous on November 2nd, 2009