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Parents if you found out your daughter had a threesome with a guy and another girl who would you feel/react?
by helpME2010 on April 6th, 2012
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True or False: When your mum gets grumpy, no one in the house is happy
by FartyMcFart on April 19th, 2012
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how could you tell if someone's is just exaggerating a story?
by beautiful_eyesore on April 17th, 2012
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Did you mum slap you once in a while as a kid? Did she hit you with the nearest object sometimes?
by FartyMcFart on April 25th, 2012
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What is your mother like?
by The One Cool Skanush on March 31st, 2012
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You're reading I never really had a mom. She was just not capable of taking care of me and I was raised by my dad. Every time I hear about anything to do with moms I get sad and feel like crying. How do I get over this?
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What do you mean by forgive and hold your love?
by pouncey on October 30th, 2009
You dissect my answer, don't award points, and I am not even sure I follow your question in the comment. I +5'ed and tried to give a response as someone who could deeply relate to your situation. I am a little confused about where I am vague in my answer. I never said "forgive and hold your love", specifically.
by Sixty B - Commander Topcoat on October 30th, 2009
The last paragraph. you said. forgive you accept what does that even mean?
by pouncey on October 30th, 2009
A therapist told me that you accept that your parents should fulfill this awesome role in your life, but when they don't, you have to realize they are human and it is not your fault. You can find love and be fulfilled, and your mother was never pefect but she never meant to hurt you like that. You just have to deal without her supportive love, and you can. A lot of people do. I went through that myself and it makes more sense with the actual experience - rather than verbalizing it.
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Normally I don't make a big deal of this, but I hope you uprate my answer. I notice you are not uprating anyone, and I am shocked considering the thought it takes to answer a deeper question.
by Sixty B - Commander Topcoat on October 30th, 2009
ok +6 but that does make sense and thank you for you answer.
by pouncey on October 30th, 2009
As long as it makes sense. I mean, this is hard stuff to learn - it was a long road getting to where I am now. I haven't talked to my mom in a very long time...
by Sixty B - Commander Topcoat on October 30th, 2009
It does there only human. I think its just best if I just stay away which I have been doing for quite a long time.
by pouncey on October 30th, 2009
It feels unnatural. It's still unnatural to me. But the thing is, you realize that some people don't bring to your life and only take away. It is imaginary to think we deserve to be treated like that.
by Sixty B - Commander Topcoat on October 30th, 2009
It is then why does it happen?
by pouncey on October 30th, 2009
Because our parents are only human and are subject to making the same mistakes anyone else can. They don't necessarily mean to hurt their children when they get that selfish.
by Sixty B - Commander Topcoat on October 30th, 2009
Mt mom was actually a very selfish person. Well I guess people don't have a finite on how many flaws they had then.
by pouncey on October 30th, 2009
Selfishness is the central flaw, and the rest of them would branch out from there...
by Sixty B - Commander Topcoat on November 1st, 2009
Hmm well being selfish is a HUGE flaw. I agree with that.
by pouncey on November 1st, 2009