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by gtravels loves her life penguin on October 27th, 2009
First, I'm sorry for the loss of your father. Second, while this boyfriend/jerk's timing couldn't have been worse, I'm glad that he showed you his true colors and saved you from a lifetime of misery with a loser who didn't deserve your love. You'll be wiser for the experience and better able to appreciate the right man when he comes along.
by Gene H on November 12th, 2009
You poop on me once, shame on you. You poop on me twice, shame on me.
Which is it: He's dangerous. He's cute. He's so masculine. I can change him. He's a bad boy.
One of these appeals to you and you can't let it go. Define which one it is and go get someone who does NOT have that quality.
TA DA
by Elfie on October 27th, 2009
Stop associating and relying on them.
by tcbtom on November 12th, 2009
Are you talking about Obama?
by Seanzie is smiling again on November 12th, 2009
Wish I knew. Im in the same situation
by SoulFire on November 3rd, 2009
Cut the ties that bind and never associate with them again.
by Ms.A on October 27th, 2009
Eventually,you'll get sick of it,dump that person and not care anymore.
by Sarah M on October 27th, 2009
Dump them like yesterdays trash and move on.
by Spicy Hot on October 27th, 2009
I get them out of my life, you have to stand up for your self, no one else is going to do it for you.
by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on October 27th, 2009
This guy is NOT a good person! You need to find someone who won't lie to you or cheat on you and who will be with you through the hard places in life. They're out there ... just keep looking. God bless!
by Chopsy the Diver on October 27th, 2009
Cut them loose...its the only way to save your own sanity, it chips away at you in the end, trust me!
by Lady Elizabeth on November 15th, 2009
Well sounds like the situation I am in right now. Just take some space and think about what you and your partner could do to change that problem. There is always a solution to a prolem. Am I wrong? You both need to figure out what you want out of the relationship, and sart setting goals to reach.
by StupidGirl on November 12th, 2009
Drop 'em.
by Incognito on November 12th, 2009
All you can do is move on..
I am pretty much going thru the same thing. It sucks majorly, he promised me that this time things were different, the situation has changed(which is true) and I fell right into his arms. He was gone as fast as he showed up. I am just trying to move thru life. I gave up everything I had going so I could be with him. I'm done, you should be too.
by Shemarq the Wamama on November 7th, 2009
This is the motto I follow:
Screw me once: shame on you.
Screw me twice: shame on me.
by Anonymous on November 7th, 2009
I had to have my heart broken TWICE by the same guy before I was willing to see that my darlin boy, while confident on the surface, was stuck in a kinda low-level depression because he didn't like himself or his life. Sadly, if you are not ok with yourself first it's very difficult to give someone else enough attention and care because you are still building yourself up and nursing your own wounds.
I think you should recognize that he/she might really have meant to follow through on their promises, but they probably have some kinda personal hurdle they need to jump before they can keep those promises and be a truly good partner.
That doesn't make their behavior any less selfish, though. Good luck!
by Pistachio on November 7th, 2009
Move on to someone who really cares about you, and wants to put you first in thier life..experience says...once a cheat always a cheat. I had two husbands that cheated, they left by request, and I secretely hope thier winkey falls off .
by susue on November 7th, 2009
i have been with my boyfriend for six years now.He is a recovering alcholic.He has slipped many times.He almost died three years ago from drinking.He recovered from that and then stopped working.I stayed with him thru thick and thin i lost a home because he did not have enoug work and a really nice apartment. I had to work two jobs to support.He has hurt me so much.I still love him though he moved to california to work with one of his friends.he left six weeks ago.came home for five days and went back.I have been having really bad anxiety attacks since then.He says that he is doing this for us so we can have money.I asked him to come home and that we can work things out with money,and he says that he wont ane i have to find something to do to occupy myself.I am lonely and feel very abandonded.my daughter says that i have been thru enough with him,and to say goodbye.i would really like to know someones objective opinion on this. sounds like we may have alot in common.i would say to forget the person who is breaking your heart.maybe i should take my own advice
by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on November 3rd, 2009
"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!"
by weatherman taking week or so off on November 3rd, 2009
The words/concept "total departure" comes to mind.
by Anonymous on November 3rd, 2009
my question is what if that person is your husband?
by _bRiTtAnY_ on October 28th, 2009
MOVE ON BC IN THE END ITS NOT WORTH IT.YOUR GOING TO KEEP LETTING THAT PERSON HURT YOU AND LIE AND THEY THINK ITS GOIN TO BE OK WELL ITS NOT GOIN TO BE OK SO JUZ LET THEM GO NOW B4 ITS TO LATE TO !!!!
TRUST ME I KNOW ITS HAPPENED TO ME TO SO I JUZ LET THAT PERSON GO ON HIS WAY!!!!!!!
by Nemesis on October 28th, 2009
Don't rely on them move on
by Moley the contrary female dragon on October 28th, 2009
You dont deal with them, you cut them completely off from your life. You move on and resolve never ever to let that jerk even speak to you again.
Never accept less than you deserve. We all deserve to be treated with kindness and respect. He has shown neither.
He deserves none of your time or thought. Learn from this and choose someone with the same values as yourself. It will be better in the long run. At least you did find out what he is like.
by Redhawk on October 28th, 2009
I write them out of my life! No one can treat me in such a way and continue to be part of my life, unless I simply like being treated like dirt.
F*%K me once...shame on YOU...
F*%K me twice....shame on ME!
Time to find NEW FRIENDS, there are many, many kind and loving people out there, no need to be burdened with disappointment and sadness!
MOVE ON!
by Millenium - The Mysterious M. . . GONE! on October 28th, 2009
Drop them like a hot potato! NOW!!!! RIGHT NOW!!!!!
by StarBright on October 27th, 2009
How about a good spanking?
by CaRbOnPrOdUcK is Baccuss on October 27th, 2009
I would stop dealing with them. Sounds like a "once shame on you"...."twice shame on me" I'd learn, and move on to someone who didn't do those things.
by Anonymous on October 27th, 2009
I hear arsenic does wonders..
by Jacques on October 27th, 2009
You need to try find the strength to move on.
by Scifisuz on October 27th, 2009
I ask myself why this person is in my life.
by Wind in the Willow on October 27th, 2009
I would make sure that I would never have to say the word "again" about this whole topic.
by Arithon on October 27th, 2009
I was going to ask what kind of promises he was breaking and all to see if he just overused the word but I read your comment about him cheating while you were at the hospital.
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Go ahead and let me know his address and I'll take care of him for you! I'll break a bone for every time he broke a promise!!!
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;)
by megcham on October 27th, 2009
Mark an X on his ass and toss him back. That one is putrid, the longer he's around the more he will contaminate your life.
by Anonymous on November 28th, 2009
you dont deal you leave and make yourself happy, why wait around for yourself to be hurt again?
by futuregramma on January 7th, 2012
It gets really fun when you have a kid with one of these losers.... (I get the "faith without works" Bible passage now. Love without trust is worse than worthless.)
Do you take a right or a left at the fork in the road?
by snookinforluv on July 24th, 2010
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Do you keep your promises?
by SELENIUM_TEST_83335 on June 14th, 2010
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i always feel taken for granted by my bf but if im telling him what i feel he's telling me he didn't.
by prettylyn on July 13th, 2010
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would you forgive your bf or gf if they cheated on you, not by having sex, would u forgive them if they tried anything posible to win u back
by kira7 on June 27th, 2010
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can you keep a promise? or you're to old for them.
by speachless on June 22nd, 2010
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Comments
Thanks! +5
by Alice on October 27th, 2009
plus6
by Seeya says Dont Ever Give Up on October 27th, 2009
Thanks:)
by gtravels loves her life penguin on October 27th, 2009
:-)
by Spicy Hot on October 27th, 2009