How do you deal with someone who breaks every promise made to you...someone who you thought really cared and BAM they break your heart again?
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Cut them loose...its the only way to save your own sanity, it chips away at you in the end, trust me!
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Stop associating and relying on them.
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Mark an X on his ass and toss him back. That one is putrid, the longer he's around the more he will contaminate your life.
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I was going to ask what kind of promises he was breaking and all to see if he just overused the word but I read your comment about him cheating while you were at the hospital. . Go ahead and let me know his address and I'll take care of him for you! I'll break a bone for every time he broke a promise!!! . ;)
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First, I'm sorry for the loss of your father. Second, while this boyfriend/jerk's timing couldn't have been worse, I'm glad that he showed you his true colors and saved you from a lifetime of misery with a loser who didn't deserve your love. You'll be wiser for the experience and better able to appreciate the right man when he comes along.
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This guy is NOT a good person! You need to find someone who won't lie to you or cheat on you and who will be with you through the hard places in life. They're out there ... just keep looking. God bless!
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I would make sure that I would never have to say the word "again" about this whole topic.
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I ask myself why this person is in my life.
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I get them out of my life, you have to stand up for your self, no one else is going to do it for you. -
You need to try find the strength to move on.
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I hear arsenic does wonders..
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Dump them like yesterdays trash and move on.
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I would stop dealing with them. Sounds like a "once shame on you"...."twice shame on me" I'd learn, and move on to someone who didn't do those things.
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How about a good spanking?
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Eventually,you'll get sick of it,dump that person and not care anymore.
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Drop them like a hot potato! NOW!!!! RIGHT NOW!!!!!
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I write them out of my life! No one can treat me in such a way and continue to be part of my life, unless I simply like being treated like dirt. F*%K me once...shame on YOU... F*%K me twice....shame on ME! Time to find NEW FRIENDS, there are many, many kind and loving people out there, no need to be burdened with disappointment and sadness! MOVE ON!
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You dont deal with them, you cut them completely off from your life. You move on and resolve never ever to let that jerk even speak to you again. Never accept less than you deserve. We all deserve to be treated with kindness and respect. He has shown neither. He deserves none of your time or thought. Learn from this and choose someone with the same values as yourself. It will be better in the long run. At least you did find out what he is like.
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Don't rely on them move on
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MOVE ON BC IN THE END ITS NOT WORTH IT.YOUR GOING TO KEEP LETTING THAT PERSON HURT YOU AND LIE AND THEY THINK ITS GOIN TO BE OK WELL ITS NOT GOIN TO BE OK SO JUZ LET THEM GO NOW B4 ITS TO LATE TO !!!! TRUST ME I KNOW ITS HAPPENED TO ME TO SO I JUZ LET THAT PERSON GO ON HIS WAY!!!!!!!
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my question is what if that person is your husband?
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The words/concept "total departure" comes to mind.
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Cut the ties that bind and never associate with them again.
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"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!"
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i have been with my boyfriend for six years now.He is a recovering alcholic.He has slipped many times.He almost died three years ago from drinking.He recovered from that and then stopped working.I stayed with him thru thick and thin i lost a home because he did not have enoug work and a really nice apartment. I had to work two jobs to support.He has hurt me so much.I still love him though he moved to california to work with one of his friends.he left six weeks ago.came home for five days and went back.I have been having really bad anxiety attacks since then.He says that he is doing this for us so we can have money.I asked him to come home and that we can work things out with money,and he says that he wont ane i have to find something to do to occupy myself.I am lonely and feel very abandonded.my daughter says that i have been thru enough with him,and to say goodbye.i would really like to know someones objective opinion on this. sounds like we may have alot in common.i would say to forget the person who is breaking your heart.maybe i should take my own advice
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Move on to someone who really cares about you, and wants to put you first in thier life..experience says...once a cheat always a cheat. I had two husbands that cheated, they left by request, and I secretely hope thier winkey falls off .
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I had to have my heart broken TWICE by the same guy before I was willing to see that my darlin boy, while confident on the surface, was stuck in a kinda low-level depression because he didn't like himself or his life. Sadly, if you are not ok with yourself first it's very difficult to give someone else enough attention and care because you are still building yourself up and nursing your own wounds. I think you should recognize that he/she might really have meant to follow through on their promises, but they probably have some kinda personal hurdle they need to jump before they can keep those promises and be a truly good partner. That doesn't make their behavior any less selfish, though. Good luck!
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This is the motto I follow: Screw me once: shame on you. Screw me twice: shame on me.
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All you can do is move on.. I am pretty much going thru the same thing. It sucks majorly, he promised me that this time things were different, the situation has changed(which is true) and I fell right into his arms. He was gone as fast as he showed up. I am just trying to move thru life. I gave up everything I had going so I could be with him. I'm done, you should be too.
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Drop 'em.
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Wish I knew. Im in the same situation
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Are you talking about Obama?
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You poop on me once, shame on you. You poop on me twice, shame on me. Which is it: He's dangerous. He's cute. He's so masculine. I can change him. He's a bad boy. One of these appeals to you and you can't let it go. Define which one it is and go get someone who does NOT have that quality. TA DA
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Well sounds like the situation I am in right now. Just take some space and think about what you and your partner could do to change that problem. There is always a solution to a prolem. Am I wrong? You both need to figure out what you want out of the relationship, and sart setting goals to reach.
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you dont deal you leave and make yourself happy, why wait around for yourself to be hurt again?
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