I'd like to receive serious replies/comments to this question. My dad died in 2003, aged 58. My mum will be 58 later this year, and I'm just terrified that she might die sometime this year, and I don't know what to do....
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Oh I am sorry for you worries. I know you must be stressed about it. It usually does not effect moms and dads that way. In general women outlive men a great deal of the time. Have you talked to your mom about this yet? If you have not it might help you to express your feeling to her and if she knows how you feel maybe she will go get a complete physical and let a doctor tell her and you that your worries are not neccasary. I know it is so hard to loose a parent and scary to think you will loose another. I am sorry you lost you father. You do know that 58 is awful young for your father to pass away so I really feel like it is just a scary time because your mom ios reaching that age but women generally live to be in their 70 or older unless they have health issues. But do talk to her I know she can help the way you feel right now and don't be afraid to talk to her about it. She will be comfortable with the fact you have questions and are looking out for her health. Good Luck I will be thinking of you.
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You hav to have faith and have a strong heart, and know that as long as you keep your spirit up, your mom will be inclined to do the the same and together you will both share many more years of memories of you dad.
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Im sorry about your loss. Speaking as if you are a spiritual person, you must have faith that the God in which you believe will keep your mother healthy so that she may live a full life until its time for her to move on to a better place. You cant worry over something you have no control over.
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I am sorry for you loss, sadly there is nothing you can do to prevent your mum from dying sooner or later, eventually it will happen. All you can do is make sure you are always on good terms with her, never say good-bye in a bad way, always make sure you treat her with the respect that she deserves... That's all you can do...
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My condolences about your father. Firstly, you might need to think about the causes of how your father died, and if they are anything to do with your mother or something that could be threatining her. But if I were you I wouldnt be worrying because 58 is still quite young to die, and if you are really worried then just don't let her know that and enjoy your time with her. :)
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