How to convince someone they are good enough for you? I really like this girl, and i have never had so much in common with a girl in my LIFE and she seems to think she might not be "good enough" for me... how do i convince her otherwise?

When women say they are not good enough for you, it's usually because they don't want a relationship with you.

talk to her and find out why she feels inadequate and then figure out a way to show her she isn't.

Out of curiosity, why does she feel that way?

People dont seem to understand...
the answers saying she doesnt want to be with me aren't really relevant since she TELLS me she wants to, she tells all her friends she likes me

what im trying to figure out is if it's maybe a past relationship thats got her down? Or do some people simply have the feeling of inadequacy?

Read this then think If I truly like her I could give her this idea about right partners as well as right gamete donors

Here is a way to flirt

have a cause like an activist then go on dates to talk about your cause It completely minimizes psychological pressure

I was a temporary secretary for awhile I have to say that the minimally mattering yet frequent social occasion of meeting new co workers is fairly pleasant

Part of that is the perspective

What if the viewer could feel as casual on a date as they do meeting a new co worker yet still be progressing towards romance

Here is a cause that brings much benefit to the persons you date Tell them to Date a Different Person

The thing is people could go out on lots of dates to find a person that they both like n who also carries genes that complement theirs to produce kind happy clever beautiful kids

The way people look can be different than having genes that complement yours; Matching genes is actually nine times as effective at judging appearance or behavior when creating a particular ability or appearance

The likelihood that any particular date has those complementary genes is modest thus if you persuade your date they would like to have a kid with a wonderful future They should find out their genes n date a different genetically complementary person

there are places like https://www.23andme.com/ that have genetic profiles from 399 to $99

Also a peculiar thing about this is you are being authentically benevolent to the other person while minimizing the risk of a LTR It might be a nifty way to get laid as well as find a wonderful complement

Having a cause makes meeting massive numbers of people from personals less stressful n possibly entertaining; finding your dates genetic complement that they have kinder happier calmer cleverer more beautiful kids benefits your date as well

Don't waste time trying to change this other person's a)Feelings for you or B) Their feelings for themselves - (B is 99% of the time irrelevant anyway; she is, as others have correctly commented, probably using a nice excuse to blow you off.) Concentrate on yourself and everything falls into place.

Attraction has nothing to do with being good enough for you or not. It's about liking someone. The rest will take care of itself. She doesn't seem to like you and is looking for something else. Don't try to convince her. Use your energy to find someone else. Personally, I'd ignore her myself (if I was a man).