I told my friend I didnt like an old friend she was hanging out with, cause she cant be trusted. She told me she understood, but I found out recently that she has been talking crap about me with this old friend? She doesnt know I know this. What now?
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Nicci4
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It sounds like it's time to draw a line in the sand. The person you thought you could trust is friends with the one you couldn't trust. And now you see why they're still friends. I've learned that when a person shows you who they really are, believe them. Often times people want to secure a friendship with someone they know you don't like. And if they aren't careful they'll betray one to keep the other. It sounds like it's time for you to make new friends. I'm sorry this happened to you, but it's better you know now than later.
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leave it alone. because friends should be allowed to talk with who ever they want. and if the topic is you then it's only natural you leave them alone. you can still trust her to a degree. but there's no need to let her go as a friend. maybe she was doing it to be a friend to the old friend. i have a feeling this old friend won't be bugging you anymore. and that will be the end of it.
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