I am not sure how you think we can help. If your husband is totally against having any more then as long as you are with him there is not much you can do unless you cheat on him. I do not know what age you are but as you get older and that old biological clock starts ticking, you can feel broody but that doesn't mean you have to have another child. You could volunteer at a local kindergarten or play center.

We're not here to help with this. A vasectomy can sometimes be reversed. However, if your husband doesn't want more children, then you will have to accept that.