What would you do if your minor teenage daughter was getting asked out by boys at school who don't really mean it?They have your daughter thinking that they really want to date her,& then days later she sees them holding hands w/ their real girlfriends.
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Crystal
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Hard as it is that is life. If the girl is 13, 14 then I would think she was too young to date anyway. Older and I would suggest she gets to know these boys better before agreeing to dating them. Perhaps go out in a group.
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thats really a tough question. I woudl HOPE that by the time she is old enough to date, she will have enough security and self worth that she wont let these boys just use her and hurt her. But the facts are, MOST girls do allow this type of behavior when they are young and hopeful. I honestly dont know what i would do....
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Tell her everyone should get to start with a fresh slate, but it pays to keep track of who are truthful and who the assholes are. At her age, date for fun, and companionship. expect to fall into puppy love and think the world will end but KNOW that she will come through it. Learn to fall in Like before she falls in love. Ask herself what do you think and what do you know, and how does that go with what you see. as in "Who are you going to believe, me, or your eyes."
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What I would do is first ask her how she feels about whats going on. Is she bothered by the immature behavior that's going on? If yes then I would probably explain that It's nothing personal and that there is nothing wrong with her and that both sexes are trying new and different aproaches to the opposite sex and for her to try not give it any attention. See it for what it is, a learning experience, of what not to do and what to look for in the future when she is older. Then I would hug her really tight! Because it's tough growing up.
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my daughter is 17 soon to be 18 and knowing her she would handle it herself with advice from me and I would tell her to not feel badly because guys like that are not worth her time because she is special and if you want to tell them what you think of them that is ok with me but I would not do anything unless it continued then no doubt I would talk to the principal about it because these things can get out of hand if they are truly bullying her or other kids at school
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