My view is its wrong totally wrong..its illegal and morally not right..the man should be locked up..at 14 she is a minor..

That's not dating. That's borderline child abuse (or actual child abuse if any intimacy occurs)...:-P...

It's disgusting. As a mother of this 14 year old girl, I wouldn't allow it.

Absoltly not thats horrible!!!

I find that disgusting!

My view is jail. She may like him or even think she love him, but he will only use her.

Well I dont think there's anything wrong with a girl of that age knows that the man is a single person she would expect him to be a sugar daddy,but it's a bit odd if a 29 year man dates a 14 year old girl.

Its sick and not right

That jails and statutory rape laws are there for a reason.

She's at least 7 years too young for him, or he's at least 13 years too old for her.

Bordering on pedophilia. . That's how normal men see it: http://images.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/5/52/Diagram.jpg Some might have it inverted: http://images.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/5/54/Pedochart_grainyasfuck.jpg Which means there's something seriously wrong with them. . The guy should be institutionalized and/or sent to jail.

I think that the guy should be in jail and her parents should go with him if they are allowing that.

Let's put it this way, if the little Girl was my sister or I even knew her, the guy would be in a wheelchair for the rest of his life! That's if he survived the beating I would give him. Peace, Jonathan

Whilst the girl in question may consider herself super grown up etc., the guy in question is always a mentally retarded individual or a sick paedophile. Only when the girl grows up and looks back on the experience does she realise this. It is sick and the guy should be beaten to a pulp, but opening the girl's eyes is more important.

Let's turn this around: what could a 29 year old man possibly see in a 14 year old girl other than he's after her virginity, if she still has it! They can't possibly date: she can't go to a bar, has a curfew, and what would they have in common? IMHO: this is sick and wrong, wrong, wrong!

stupid why cant the man find someone at least 2 years older so he doesent get locked up

The worst thing is that you can't convince her that he could have no good reason to want to date her. She thinks she's grown up and that's why ahhh!

Put the idiot under the Jail

i think the 29 yr old man is sick sick sick man she still a child .

Seriously? There is something seriously wrong with a guy wanting to date a child of that age. It's gross on so many levels. Forget the fact that it's illegal, it's just plain gross. I have a feeling this guy is not the type of person a girls parents would want for her even if she was the same age.

even if the girl really like him and totally come on to him, he's nothing but sick, disgusting man. the man's supposed to know that's not right things to do.

There's gotta be something wrong with both of them. Both of them are compensating for something they missed out on in childhood. Or, using the assumption that 14 year old girls are emotional roller coasters, she's getting lots of re assurance and love from the 29 year old, which makes her feel really special. The 29 year old on the other hand probably has something mentally wrong with him. In this second case, the girl's normal, the guy's messed up.

he belongs in prison

then he is a peisophile. he atually is by law

I hope she's happy visiting him in jail, cuz that's where he'll end up.

What do you think?? Sick!

The man is sick.

That's called pedophilia and it's illegal.

will never be excepted in the U.S. but in some countries its completely normal

SO help me understand why a 29 year old man would have anything in common with a 14 year old girl except for the fact she is cute and can give him sex? Add to the fact that he can be prosecuted as a sex ofender and have to register the rest of his life should also discourage him. iF HE REALLY "LOVES" HER he can wait till she is 18 or whatever the age of consent of that state is.

Is he related to Roman Polanski?

disgusting... it just seems wrong.

Totally wrong. He is a pedophile and a criminal, and she is in danger.

Yuck. Takes a real loser of a "man" to get sexually involved with a minor. Creepy to the extreme.

PEDOPHILE

The man is most probably a paedophile and he needs locking up for encouraging a juvenile.

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

no so wrong never, the man should not be doing that he risks jail and quite rightly so

The 15 year gap is too wide seeing she is only 14. Its against the law if she is having sex with him. Why would a 29 year old need to be with a 14 year old unless there was something wrong. If he was 50 and she was 35 at least they were both adults.

Its pretty sick. My boyfriend who is 32 has a daugther who is 14.

Illegal, immoral, unacceptable, unbelieveable, unfair to the girl, unhealthy, unscrupulous, unimaginable.

Statutory rape.

If you ever watch Dateline, you'll see 20 year old men getting arrested for trying to date 16 year old girls. Why? Because it's ILLEGAL. The 29 year old man IS A CHILD MOLESTER and should be reported to the authorities immediately. In fact, if you have his name, Google him now and see if he's a registered sex offender.

WRONG, very, very wrong. And there was me thinking the fact I'm dating a 29 year old was quite shocking, I'm 19 but at least I'm legal.

nastyyyyyy .... dirtyyy ..... just wrong ...... its over !!!

IF the girl was MY daughter ; it would NOT be hapening ! IF she was 18 ; and in MY opinion LEGAL .. that might be a different story .... I'd have a rusty , serrated kife that would be used on the man in question , in this particuliar situation ... +5

wrong. I SAY there are usually exceptions but DEFFINATELY not when the girl is 14 she has to be older for their to be exceptions. I don't think a 14 year old can be hat mature.

Were r her parents?

She's immature and he's a criminal

Depends on where/when this is happening. ;p [Sorry, but I can't take this question seriously. It's like asking "Do you support the Troops?" ]

It's very wrong, as others have said. And if he touches her sexually, it's a crime. Why anyone would be asking the question makes me wonder.

That is completely disgusting.

It is illegal. And immoral. The authorities should be called in immediately and he should be charged with whatever law covers this.

look, i may say love has no bounds, and that age, appearance etc doesnt matter, but i must admit, a 14 yr old dating a 29 yr old...that IS wrong for many reasons. . for example, she is 14, she isnt even mature enough to truly judge the situation. he is 29, he should see everything wrong, so if he truly cares, he'll get her to move on.

Its not only illegel, but it is abuse and and as far as I am con concerned rape of the 14 year old.

Why can't he get a girlfriend his own age?

Weak on the man's part. there is a difference between a 35 year old man dating a 20 year old, and a 29 year old man dating a 14 year old girl. a 20 year old girl is emotionally and physically up to par, a 14 year old girl is NOT.

Just plain wrong in my opinon

rape?

Weird and wrong.

14 y.o. ~ jail bait. 29 y.o. ~ pedophile.

they both need to get a life and find someone there own age

Jailbait.

How can i get D.R Phil's number?

jail

The term "jail bait" sums it up nicely.

It would make sense if the guy had a mustache.

Wrong, illegal, psycologically wrong with/for both.

UTTERLY DISGUSTING?!

Its fine in 20 years. Now hes a pervert.

The fourteen year old needs counseling (seriously) and the 29 year old man needs to be in jail, permanently. They both have problems.

It's not nearly as bad a as corpse dating a fetus, but close.

i dont have a veiw on it. a 14 year old CANNOT date a 29 year old man properly she doesnt have the mental capacity to. also he's a pedophile. on a different note:what is up with the 14yr olds on maury looking like here 20?

Ok 29 is abit wide, but clearly non of you has ever been in love or has loved someone, non of you know the situation in how they met or what thier lives was like before they started going out, love is a strong feeling no matter what the age. so unless any of you knows the situation they are in don't bother making stupid comments, and yes If he really loves her he would wait until she is old enough befor having sex, but lets say it just happens and it wasn't planned by but it just happens that they have sex. Who are we to judge we don't know how they feel or react towards each other, and if it did or does happen then mabey it the choice of doing it with someone you really love and it doesn't take over thier lives. Think about it, love comes into our lives when we least expect it. we don't know how when or with whom, but when it's there you know and thats what counts. being in love is the best feeling ever really its the best. so we cant just go on judging them we don't even know them or know how they react to each oter or how they come to be. the awnser to this question can only be awnserd by themselfs and thier love and with GOD in thier thoughts Doesn't GOD have a path for all of us? and yes you do get perverts and molesters and what ever you want to call them they all are trash but who says these two are not in love.

ewwww...how can anyone even think like dat ...srsly way too disgusting ...serious therapy sessions needed!

Prison

he should be butt hole raped and her parents need to get a clue and put down some ground rules

not gonna happen in my house

Put a chastity belt on the girl. I recommend Armor of God chastity belts. They are great for keeping out male intruders and rapists. As for the man, all you need is a knife and the willingness to use it to eliminate all his sexual desires, and that's probably what should be done.

that is bad but then it is up to you what you do and your parents i would never do that

Thats Sick, Dose He Know How Much Trouble He Can Get It Its Perverted, He Is Like Dubble The Age, If I Was 14 And Asked Out By A 29 Year Old Man, Its A Straight No Why Would You Even Think About Thats, Its SICK! Discusting.x

He should be put away or castrated. I would elect the latter for him.

Very bad idea. She is a child. The last part of our brain to develop is the decision-making part. This takes place at age 25. So, she is not at this stage of her life capable of making an informed, intelligent decision about the course of her life. He, on the other hand, is a grown-up and should know better. Surely, it is also against the law and he could end up in jail?

Very bad idea... Like what they have in common?!

What's your view on shotgun blast to the ass?

Criminal & perverted! That’s in relation to the 29yr old man...... I would view the girl as a victim of a paedophile.

em...stupid...age gap too big...sick

not a good idea.But what about a 14 year boy and a 29 year old women?

One word: Pedophile.

rape!

umm..... no way.... but can anyone tell me about their view of a 14 year old dating a 20 year old?? do u think THATS okk???

I think its pretty sick. What would those 2 have in common. - Nothing. What would attract a 29 year old to a child. - well it must be sexual... What would sexual attract an old man to a little girl. - mental illness. Why?...Well because a normal adult male is not physically or mentally attracted to a small child. If they are physically they must look alot older, BUT...becuase they know their age, they kick it out of their mind and KNOW it is off limits...and keep it that way. There is a percentage of males that are attracted...but its not right. a 14 year old has no cognitive thinking...and doesnt make very wise decisions. So an adult male only takes advantage...knowingly. Things might have been different in the past, but 14 year olds were different too. They are nothing but children now. And a man being 29...is sick. Its illigal, immoral, and makes no sense. So...My views are its totally wrong.

arrest the sicko!!

Disgusting. Foul. Pedophile. Sick.

The 29 year old need to go to jail. After the 14 year old's father beats him senseless.

Other then the legal point of view, i have no view on it, as long as they both really care for one another. This will damm sure get you in trouble though. I will not be their judge.

He is what is known as a child prediator.And he needs to be stopped. There are to many full grown woman who would love to have a man who will work, provide and protect them. If this man is no of the above, he needs to be shot and taken out of society before he tries my fifteen years old and i go to jail. There is no need to pry on a child.

Wrong

Terrible question. That's called rape. A 14 year old doesn't know anything yet and the man is a predator that should be castrated.

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