Once you are annoyed by a person who you initially really liked, how easy is it for you to go back to that original feeling? Once I get annoyed, most times I am done, there is no going back.
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Chosun One
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It is very hard to put toothpaste back into the tube. Once negative feelings have developed it is very hard to overcome them. There susally is no going back unless an event occurs that convinces you that the original insult was superficial and that your initial impression was correct. This is however very rare.
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For me it really depends on the situation, the duration and the intensity level of the relationship. The clencher is if this annoyance continues - especially after discussing with the person how much of whatever they are doing annoys me. Then I feel that they have no consideration for me and my feelings - that's when "I'm done" and "there's no going back".
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I hear what you are saying. Once that feeling comes on, it's almost like I have (and I think I have) made the permanent decision in my brain and am just done. I have convinced myself that there will be a person that will not cause me to "shut off" like that and that will be the one..
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I can only think of one situation where I went back on my "irritated" feelings for someone. I realised that there was a huge miscommunication between a mutual "friend" and they were playing us against each other. I hated her, and every word annoyed the crap out of me, but I decided I would give her a try. Once I saw her in a new light, it was easy for me to not find her so annoying. Everyone else... Well, that's a different story.
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i a lot of cases that depends on how long i've known them and how persistent the annoyance is. if i've known someone 8 years before they annoy me for the first time i would be a lot more understanding than i would with someone i've known 8 days before they annoy me the first time. BUT if that person i've known for 8 years starts to annoy me everyday, they can leave.
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It depends on how much I liked them to begin with. I tend to give people chances because none of us are perfect, and I would hope if I screwed up, they'd give me another chance.
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