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  • That is very quick to ask such a question!! Obviously you do not know how this relationship will pan out in years to come and your wife evidently meant very much to you. If i were your partner i would expect you to say your wife as you have had many years of happiness together and i'm very new on the scene. Unless she keeps asking you, i'd not mention anything just yet, but if she pesters you for an answer just explain that it is a very difficult question to answer at this point in your relationship and i'd hope she understands where you are coming from.
  • Wow, that seems very inappropriate for her to ask this question right now. I don't think you have to answer this for her right now, and she should understand that.
  • tell her you will decide when you are ready to die! It is HIGHLY wrong for a g/f to compete in this low manner with your deceased wife. There is no telling IF this woman will ever be your wife and therefore nothing to think about right now. (btw, if you do marry her, she will compete with your wifes memory forever. think about that)
  • Tell her it doesn't matter, it's just a corpse.
  • Just buy 2 more plots and put yourself in the middle ;) But seriously that is strange of her to ask.
  • what I find in my older age, is that people don't pressure us, or stress us,we stress over fitting in ,giving our loved ones the answers we think they want. But seriously,when we die our soul moves on, and in your case the plot is payed for. Practical for the family too- one stop.But if she wants different arrangements, she can go for it, your ghost won't hunt her.People don't like to spend money.
  • selfish! its completely understandable you would want to be buried next to your first wife and i think she should understand/
  • Even in death we got these broads naggin' us about somethin'...

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