Sweetheart, these things come naturally, even if a little awkwardly at first. but you don't sound, to me, like either of you are ready to take that step. Wait. Things change so quickly when you are young. You don't want to make decisions that can affect your life, rashly.

Don't rush, you have plenty of time. Only when you feel really ready, then go do it! you can only have traumas if you do it unprepared! My advice is to wait at least a month!

Hey, you don't have to put pressure on yourself about the sex part, don't get anxious. Just enjoy things as they are and it will come when it's ready. If you are interested in having sex but you don't think you can go that far yet, don't. If you're worried about your boyfriend, I would recommend that the two of you spend some time kissing and touching and getting to know each other's bodies and what you each like, before taking that big step. I don't know how you feel about certain sex acts, but I know that teens can often 'bring each other off' just by grinding and writhing against each other, simulating sex while fully or partially clothed - it's called frottage and it's supposed to be quite pleasurable. Otherwise, just touch each other, get to know what you like, and not neccessarily down there either. There are plenty of erogenous zones in the upper body - along the neck, the ears, the chest, nipples (both male and female), even armpits and navel. Find them with your fingers and tongue - let him do the same. If you're ready to go that far, of course. But above all, my best advice to you is don't rush it. Take your time. Life isn't a race to the finish line. Good luck :-)

It sounds like the relationship the two of you have is in its early stages.Firstly, you should think about if you even want to really have sex or not.What may seem great now will really affect your future relationship(s);specifically your husband. Your husband and yourself will have a much more deep relationship if you wait.I still get a little frustrated knowing that my wife had been with someone before me.I valued and kept my virginity and she thinks it was great that I was.Just think about it.You may think it's worth it now but when you get married you will thank god for not losing it when you had the chance. Just think it through.For your future husband's sake

probably you do not feel that you are attractive enough....reassure yourself that you are sexy and change your style of dressing

How do you know you love him after only 10 weeks make sure YOUR ready and he IS THE ONE, because that isn't something that you can get back, and if he is a virgin trust me he will have a sex drive :)