ANSWERS: 4
  • Well, if it bothers you so much, why don't you just fix them before putting them in?
  • If she doesn't want to fix them, you can wash them if you'd like, but make HER do her own folding.
  • My husband and I have been at war over this very issue in the past. I finally gave up trying to get him to put his clothes right side out before they go into the hamper. I just wash, dry, and fold them inside out. It doesn't bother him, so it doesn't bother me anymore.
  • I can see it really bothers you. You take three paths. Either send it back as you'd like it to be, satisfied that you are a tolerant and meticulous person; send it back inside out, satisfied that you have not had to do the thing that annoys you so much but probably a bit niggled by the job done incorrectly or ask her to help you resolve it one more time and if she defends her right to dump her clothes as she wishes then respect her independance and allow her to do her own washing in future. Just for the record my lot all do it, I just get on with it but I've lowered my standards remarkably since sprogging.

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