ANSWERS: 7
  • How can you say you still love her?. You gave her an std years ago while she was pregnant. In this same situation I would not have been fooling around. That's just me, I'm a one woman man. I will break off a relationship first before starting another one. I guess she has to talk to you cause you both have a daughter in common. You lost her trust 4 yrs. ago I'd say it's pretty much done.
  • I understand you messed up big time, and boy did you mess up big time a std like herpes, which is probably what you gave her is no laughing matter. I am sorry to say it would be almost impossible for her to forgive this, but there is always a chance, if your went to her and truely pored out your feelings to her and were truely remorseful, i suppose there is still a chance, after all she cant get with anyone else because of this std either. I am very sorry this happend to you honestly but you have to live with the consequences.
  • The issue is in the STD, and the implication that you had been with someone else. She cannot stay with a man who is unfaithful. If there is another reason you had an STD then you have to prove it to her to get her trust back. The fact that you waited 4 years to come to this point tells us your STD was gotten while being unfaithful. You have to deal with that, and she has to accept trusting you again, but I do not think either will happen after 4 years.
  • yes, NEVER give up , for your sake and your daughters...there have been many 'forgiving' people who have forgiven much,much ,more....you can always win back trust, earn it....i wish you and your daughter the VERY BEST....
  • Was there cheating involved? Did you have the STD before hand? I think your best bet is to be completely honest with her. If you were unfaithful, lay all your cards on the line and tell her the truth. Tell her how you feel about her and that it was the biggest mistake of your life. Tell her you wish you could take it back but that it helped you to realize what is most important to you and that you are beyond that time in your life if that is the truth. DO NOT LIE! I think your best bet is to be brutally honest, she may appreciate the fact that you are not trying to lie or sugar coat things to your favor. She might also tell you to go screw yourself too, but I am guessing you have already heard that from her, so what do you have to lose? Otherwise, if you had the STD before you met her, that cannot be helped now. Most of the population is walking around with STD's that they are unaware of. You should test yourself regularly if you are sexually active and of course always wear protection. Good luck!
  • Nobody can answer that homie. All I can tell you is if you really love and really want her then don't give up...unless she gets a restraining order against you.
  • give it up. why would you wanna be with someone that doesnt want to be with you. if it were 4 months yes. 4 years?? no. grow up and move on. there is a lot better out there.

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