then don't.

I don'e see your answer yet, but just the fact that you already think you're going to make a big mistake, and that you are thinking of whatever it is as a big mistake, you probably shouldn't do it.

So what is your question?

HELP

OK WELL, ITS A PRETTY LONG STORY. 2 YEARS AGO I WENT OUT WITH A GUY. HE WAS OLDER THEN ME AND I THOUGHT HE WAS LIKE A GOD. WE WENT OUT FOR A YEAR AND HE WAS MY FIRST REAL LOVE. BUT HE STARTED TREATRING ME SO BADLY AND LOST HIS TEMPER ALOT. HE WAS INTO RAPPING AND I WAS THE FIRST TO BE THERE FOR HIM AND HELP WITH IT. ANY WAYS AFTER A YEAR AND A BIT I BROKE UP WITH HIM BECAUSE HE WOULDNT LET ME SEE MY FRIENDS OR FAMILY AND WOULD REALLY HOLD ME DOWN. I ADMITT I WAS ALSO A BIT PARANOID BUT ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH WHEN HE LIED TO ME BADLY. I ENDED IT AND EVEN THOUGH I LOVED HIM AND IT KILLED ME.... I STUCK WITH IT. I CUT MY SELF OFF TO MAKE IT EASIER BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT ANY UNWANTED FEELINGS TO COME UP IF WE SPOKE AS FRIENDS. HE DIDNT WANT TO BE FRIENDS ANY WAYS... ANY WAY - A FEW MONTHS LATER I MET MY HIGH SCHOOL CRUSH AND HE WAS JUST EVERYTHING I EVER LOOKED FOR. COMPLETELY LOYAL, SWEET, SENSITIVE AND LOVES ME SO MUCH. I DIDNT EVEN KNOW PEOPLE LIKE HIM EXISTED. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER NOW FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS AND HAVE HARDLY EVER HAD A FIGHT BECAUSE WE BOTH UNDERSTAND EACHOTHER SO WELL. HE KNOWS ABOUT MY X AND HATES HIM FOR WHAT HE DID TO ME AND SO DO I. I HAVENT EVEN SEEN HIM IN ALMOST YEAR BUT THEN THE OTHER NIGHT I GOT A MESSAGE FROM HIM ON FACEBOOK (WE ARE NOT FRIENDS) ASKING IF I WANA BE FRIENDS??? I MEAN AFTER 2 YEARS? I DECIDES NOW TO BE FRIENDS. I SAID YES AND NEVER HEARD FROM HIM AGAIN. I ONLY SAID YES BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO HOLD ANY GRUDGES ANY MORE. BUT THEN LAST FRIDAY I WENT OUT WITH MY FRIENDS AND HE WAS THERE. HE CAME AND SPOKE TO ME AND TOLD ME ABOUT HIS LIFE AND RAPPING AND HOW I USED TO DO ALL THESE AMAZING THINGS FOR HIM THAT HIS NEWER X GIRLFRIENDS NEVER COULD. I HAVE NEVER FELT SO UNCOMFORTABLE IN MY LIFE. I DIDNT KNOW HOW TO EVEN TALK TO HIM. HE WOULD JUST STARE INTO MY EYES AND SMILE. I COULDNT FACE HIM AND THE SHOCK OF TALKING TO THIS GUY. LUCKILY MY FRIEND CAME AND PULLED ME AWAY TO GO DANCE. I DIDNT TELL MY CURRENT BOYFRIEND BECAUSE I THOUGHT IT WAS UNNECESARY. BUT TODAY!! I GET ANOTHER MESSAGE ON FACEBOOK AND HE ASKING TO ADD ME ON FACEBOOK AND TO TALK ABOUT HIM ON HIS WEB PAGE BECAUSE I NEW HIM WHEN HE STARTED ALL THE RAPPING AND HE IS GOING TO RAP WITH AKON SOON. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HE SAID, "I know we don't really talk any more but like since you were the one who was there for me when i started this rap shit... i kinda feel that you should hear how its progresed... So as wierd as it is I can only add you to my group if you a 'friend'...? I just feel that if there was anyone who heard me spiting my rhymes from the start it was you so i'd really like to hear how or if i've progressed from a person who know how i began... " AND HE ALSO SAID THIS, " Since you know I'm not a F*cking peoples person I'm just trying to light tampons on fire so seriously I would appretiate some honest opinions of what i was and what i am now... musicaly that is " NOW, WHAT SHOULD I DO? HELP HIM OUT AT THE EXPENSE OF REALLY HURTING MY CURRENT RELATIONSHIP? OR TELL HIM NO BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO JEPREDIZE (HOW EVA U SPELL IT) MY CURRENT RELATIONSHIP. I DONT WANT ANY UNWANTED FEELINGS POPPING UP AND IM JUST SOOOOOO CONFUSED!!!!!! HELP ME PLEASE

Are you seriously asking what to do? It is an easy answer get treated like shit or not? You make the decision. Some loser "rapper" or a great guy who you may make a future with. Hmmm hard decision right. Yeah no its not!

De-friend this guy NOW. No more contact. You've got a great thing going with your current boyfriend, do NOT jeopardize that. This old guy is a jerk.

You should not help him and you should tell your current BF what has been happening. . You found someone who treats you right....do you really wanna take the chance of ruining it so you could help someone who repeatdly hurt you? Seems like no brainer to me . Make sure you talk to your current BF and be honest communication is a huge part in a relationship and I am sure if he is as sensitive as you say...He'll appreciate you coming to him to tell him about it

You need to come out with all of this to your current boyfriend. Be completely honest with him about whats been happening. Just explain to him that he just recently started trying to talk to you because of this and you would like his opinion on the situation. It doesn't have to be difficult if you don't make it that way. Trust me, if your current boyfriend is as good as you say he is, you should have no problem talking to him about this and figuring it out together.