by Anonymous on March 17th, 2007

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I dated a girl for 4 years and feel deeply in love with her. She broke up and said she cheated and lied, had sex with 5 other guys. Was it I didn't satisfy her or does she have a problem. She also had a guy pay her for oral sex

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by BigDog1234 on December 17th, 2009
I wouldn't be offended. You are probably just a terrible lover, and your small penis couldn't satisfy her. The combination of your small dick and being retarded in bed would turn any bitch off. By the way, send me her number and ask her how much she charges for her services...
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by JUSTNORMAL on March 17th, 2007
I am so sorry she did this to you, but trust me, it has nothing to do with you, but everything to do with her. There is NO reason to cheat, and by being "paid" makes her a prostitute. Shame on her!! It is NOT your fault, she has serious issues. I know you are devastate and hurt, but eventually you will be glad that someone like her is out of your life, you deserve better!! GOOD LUCK
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- Thanks, I did call her a whore but she said she wasn't one. Sad thing is I have to work with the guy, same store, but he doesn't know that I know about it. I can't stand to be around him now. He is married. I'd like to tell a few of my friends at work about this but I'm not sure if I should. She used to work there too and EVERYBODY thinks she is so sweet, and she really is except for this stuff with all the men. She is going with another guy now. Will she do the same with him?
  
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  by Anonymous on March 17th, 2007
- You are welcome and yes she is a whore, but apparently she has major issues with sex. Whether she was raped, molested etc. If that guy is married, I would tell, who cares? You MUST try to not blame him, but blame HER. Do your job and ignore him. She WILL do it to another guy, till she gets the help she needs. She seems to be hypersexual, for some reason. What is her past, do you know?
  
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  by JUSTNORMAL on March 17th, 2007
- She has had a troubled past from what she indicated to me. Just prior to me she was engaged for a short time. Before that she lived with a guy, don't know how long but I guess thats when she got into the drinking thing. She said they were drunk all the time, left him after some time. She also hinted that she had been raped, don't know when or any of the circumstances. She seemed to always want male attention, as we had arguments about that. When I would ask why she always answered "I don't know". I tried to help her, she just called it more of my bs. Was I just another of the "guys"?
  
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  by Anonymous on March 18th, 2007
- When women are raped, it is such an invasive violation, with SO such truama involved, they either become hypersexual or fear sex. They can also self medicate with drugs/alcohol.She has all the classic symptoms. Everyone to her is special for a time, till she feels too close then bails, or sabotages it all. As I said ITS NOT YOUR FAULT..
  
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by A on November 3rd, 2010
Maybe she's just the type who wants to have sex with more than one person. I don't think this says anything bad about you.
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by tamm on February 17th, 2012
Did she explain why? She evidently didn't love you. If you had a flaw and corrected it would that make someone love you? She sounds like someone who doesn't deserve you, unless you mistreated her. Her having someone pay her for sex and having sex with 5 other guys is the kind of girl I would not want if I were a decent guy. Only knowing why would maybe help if you had a bad habit you needed to change, but for yourself not to get someone to love you. If two people love each other they should want to do the best, be the best, share, bring the best of all to the relationship. Move on and forget her, she did you a favor and saved you from a multitude of problems. Even if she would tell you something it may not even be the truth. Someone who has done the things she has is not trustworthy. Alot of people stay with people and play games and make their life miserable you are lucky she left.
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