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I've found that people that dislike their spouses families tend to be jealous types. Is this true for you? Are you jealous of your bf/so when you're out or he's talking with another girl? If so, you may be having these feelings with near anyone that he is with including friends he may have. It has nothing to do with what his mother did to you unless she beat the living hell out of you or something extremely serious. Otherwise most people do things to each of us that some people take way to seriously, and they're actually little perceived things. At any rate it will probably ruin your relationship if you don't get along at least somewhat with each others' families, even if it's just to be cordial.
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This is a good question. It depends on if you're both family-oriented people or not. If you aren't, then maybe you can both detach from your parents and strive to form a happy family of your own someday. You've got to let your love and loyalty towards each other be stronger than your enmity for each others' parents. A lot of people don't understand that when they get into a serious relationship, they have to detach from their parents and begin to transfer that loyalty to their new partners. This is where most problems with in-laws originate. Each of you will need to open your eyes and see the flaws in your own family members.
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