Is leaving a letter for your s/o explaining you need time to yourself for a little while insesitive? should the discussion be made face to face?
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I think a face to face discussion is in order.
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No, I think a letter is okay. My husband has a bad problem of not listening to my actual words when I speak and his mind wanders in many directions. So for me, I have to leave him a note or email about everything. Even when we were having trouble, I wrote him a very nice note and said I needed some space to think. He appreciated it because he could re read the words.
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Yes and no, if you dont have the strength to say no or tell him whats up then I see it as ok.
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I think if you just plan on leaving for a little while you should do it face to face. If you are dumping him for good, a letter should do the trick.
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A little insensitive maybe. The question you should ask yourself is if you can do it face to face without it turning into an argument or just hurting either or both of you. It could be acceptable if you can't face them.
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You can always start it with a letter (to break the ice), but you really should discuss it with him face to face.
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Yes, to explain why. :)
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Face to face is the best way. Everyone deserves the right to have emotion and express how they feel.
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A Letter is a COWARD's way out of doing it face to face which is how it should have been done .... BUT; doing something like that sound more like BREAKING UP than just "Time for Yourself" ... because those who take "Time Outs" SELDOM get back together .. +5
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