Hi i'm a straight guy and had alot of sex with different women. but this guy emailed and he wants to suck my cock and maybe fuck my ass. so i said hell no i'm not gay. now i'm thinking just do it one time. does mean i'm turning gay. please answer

If you are only attracted to the same sex and if you only want to have sex with someone of the same sex then you are a gay male, but if you are attracted to
both men and women and you want to have sex with a woman and a man then
you are not gay and you are not heterosexual you are bisexual.
Bisexuality is not the tent to homosexuality and bisexuality is not similar to
homosexuality,because bisexuality is the tent to heterosexuality and because
bisexuality is similar to heterosexuality.

I don't think it's possible to TURN "gay" - if you still enjoy sex with women ( which it sounds like you do ) you're not "gay" - "gay" men aren't interested in women sexually ! The reality is I think a LOT of guys become at least CURIOUS about some form of sexual interaction with another guy at SOME point in their lives ( and a fair percentage probably ACT on their curiousities - in college, the military, or some other scenario ) but because male bisexuality is considered so much less acceptable than female bisexuality in our society they just won't ADMIT it ! I've heard guys say how much they enjoy having their wives or girlfriends fuck them in the ass with a strap-on but will strongly deny any bisexual interest or curiousity ! The REALITY is that most of them would probably enjoy another GUY fucking them in the ass every bit as much as when their wives or girlfriends do - but they think DENYING they'd enjoy it makes them somehow a lot less "bi" ! ( In MY opinion if they enjoy getting fucked in the ass they ARE "bi" no matter WHO fucks them or what GENDER they are - not that I think there's anything WRONG with that ! ) I am VERY happily married, truly LOVE my wife, and THOROUGHLY enjoy the sex we share with one another - but I'd suck a guy off TONIGHT if my wife would FINALLY allow herself to explore the orally bisexual MMF threesome we fantasize about ! ( We've been SIMULATING it for YEARS using her dildo, it turns us BOTH on, and we've shared some VERY intense orgasms together DUE to the simulations ! ) I'm absolutely not "gay", I've never seen a man who turned me on sexually ( but I've sure seen a lot of WOMEN who turned me on sexually ), and no other form of sexual interaction with another man turns me on - in fact sucking cock only appeals to me with the thought of a WOMAN being involved - preferably my WIFE ! I haven't ever been very interested in anal sex - even when my ex-wife wanted me to fuck HER in the ass ( I did it for HER but I preferred fucking her pussy ! ) but if that's what turns you on there's nothing wrong with THAT - as I said even a lot of so called "straight" guys like getting fucked in the ass by their significant other ! Most guys enjoy getting their cocks sucked so much that they'd be OK with ANYONE who wanted to suck them off - male OR female ! I myself wouldn't have even CONSIDERED any sexual interaction with another guy until MUCH later in life ( in fact I flat refused to suck cock for a bisexual woman I was dating years ago who literally BEGGED to watch me suck cock because it didn't appeal to me at ALL at the time ) but it's now at the TOP of my "Bucket List" - and my wife KNOWS at some point I'm going to need to scratch it OFF my "Bucket List" with her ! Don't worry about any "lables" someone else might feel the need to attach to you or any activity you decide you want to participate in - sex should be a journey of exploration to determine what we as individuals enjoy and find most satisfying ( and eliminating those things that we DON'T find pleasurable ) and just like our appetites for foods may change over time so can what appeals to us sexually ! After all do we really get to CHOOSE what - or even WHO appeals to us sexually ? Verbally denying what turns us on doesn't make it any less desireable and sooner or later we're likely to EXPLORE satisfying our sexual desires regardless of how socially acceptable it might be ! You sure don't have to look very far to see examples of THAT !

What is "gay" about wanting and loving connection and pleasure? Wish that term had never been invented as it is largely meaningless except for purposes of politics and separation.

Basically there is no objectivity and you are whatever you want to say you are.

thanks for the answer me and him set a meeting at 3.

i think that makes you bi curious and if you go through with it and like it but still into women then your into the bi sexual club

If you have sexual intercourse with a woman while you are performing fellatio on
another man you are not gay, you are bisexual or if you have a man and a woman
take turns performing fellatio on you then you are not gay you are bisexual,
or if you have anal sex with a man while you are performing cunnilingus on a woman
you are not gay you are bisexual.or if you are performing fellatio on another man
while you are having anal sex with a woman you are not gay you are bisexual.

think of this logically....... your going to get your dick sucked by a guy, then your gunna get fucked in the ass by a guy........... that makes you gay..... easy as that!

If you want to suck a cock and get fucked in your ass you are gay. The urge or desire for these acts is what makes you gay. If you are straight you don't want to get buttfucked by a cock. If you do it and enjoy it, you are a no bullshit homosexual. If you still fuck women, you are bi, but if you really like it and don't want to be with women any more you are queer as a three dollar bill. There is no such thing as a straight who just wants to "try it." Gays call that "bi-curious," which is another way of saying you are still in the closet. You sound gay to me.

do it i would love suckin cock myself

it really doesn't, but if it did - would that be so bad?