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Setting boundaries in your relationship with your parents will not be easy, because you will be used to obeying them. But you are an adult now, and they need to see that you can make your own decisions. Unfortunately, sometimes parents are still critical of their kids even when they demonstrate responsible behavior(since you have an apartment, that presumes a certain level of responsibility). If you think there's nothing wrong with staying over at his house, then don't argue about the issue or discuss it with them, and don't let them dissuade you (of course this advice only applies if they're not paying your rent; if they pay your living expenses, you are obligated to respect their wishes). They will eventually see that your mind is made up, and they'll reproach you less and less.
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Is this question connected to the other question about being sick and sleeping at her boyfriends apt. and his parents not approving? Why two questions?
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If you are 18+, live your life the way YOU want to live it, and to Hell with the inheritance you won't be getting from your folks. You don't REALLY need all that money and the house, right? +5
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