Do you find it easier to speak about what you don't want than to speak about what you do want?
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Merriment
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All the time, I don't know how many times I had the "I'm glad it's Friday" conversation today. I wish that I could say what's actually on my mind but when I start doing that the eyes of the person I'm talking to usually glaze over so I steer the conversation back to the weather or something else even less thought provoking.
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Are you trying to confuse my thinking? jk It is less threatening to speak of things not dear to you. To share your real wants and desires requires trust, and that takes time to build.
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A lot of times because a lot of people can easily come up with a list throughout the day of don't wants in their heads & have a conversation but if you tell em what you do want they tend to think your too demanding.
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