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A relationship needs to have a bit of both. You need to be comfortable with it of course, but guys need to be assured that you're not going to just hold hands for the next several years.
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Just because a guy WANTS ; doesn't mean that YOU have to give it up ... Just continue to be a Decent and Respectable lady ... and you will attract decent and respectable guys .. they're still many out there .... Good things and GUYS are worth waiting for ... Hang in there and Good Luck !! +5
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Odds are you are looking for guys in the wrong places, like around the dorms or at parties. Try to meet them through mutual friends and in classes, and start dating casually. Don't rush things, and you will be viewed more romantically.
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I understand what you're going through because I'm in a similar situation. I used to think that I had to be a certain way or i'd never ger a boyfriend. Now, I don't really care and would rather be single rather than have to be something I'm not. If a man isn't willing to spend some time getting to know you before getting to know you physically he isnt worth your time. I suggest be patient because there are some good men out there who aren't just looking for sex and will appreciate a woman who isn't easy.
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Best choice you can make is to make the guy wait for the sex. I think that if most guys are like me then they will take advantage of sex when ever available... But that is just the instinctual thing. When you find a guy who makes you laugh and who wants to spend time (weeks to months) getting to know you and you getting to know him then that is sure to cause him to become more romantic with you because he will know you better and you will know if the chemestry is there to move on into something sexual that will not make you feel viewed in that way. Once a guy gets to know you, you will look one of two ways to him: like a sister/friend or like a something more/friend... if you don't make them wait then they will see a free ride and miss the beautiful person you know you are inside regardless of outward appearances.You have a lot of college left. Get to know the ropes and find a girlfriend you can trust who has been around the parties etc. and have a talk. Maybe you will find out you are not the only one with this question or these feelings.Good Luck!
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