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by Anonymous on October 19th, 2009
I don't have much answer for you, but I can tell you that you are not alone.
I'm 23, and I have 4 sisters. Around the age of 15 I started having feelings towards my sister who is 4 years younger than me (half-blooded). Over the years, it's progressively gotten more intense, and I've had more dreams than I can count about her even though I KNOW that it's NOT ok. We've always talked about sex and stuff like we were just buddies and I feel like she may think the same way, but it's just so taboo, I've never been able to bring myself to say anything. We're very touchy and the tension is ridiculous sometimes, but that line is there.
I've had a couple serious relationships, and a good number of flash-in-the-pan women that come and go, yet nothing has changed about how I think of my sister. I've often found myself wishing we were not related at all. There is nothing you can do really, in the end it seems to be one of those fantasies that most people have for a rock-star for example. Just one of those things you want, but know it's out of reach and won't happen.
There's plenty of fish in the sea, don't let this eat away too much at you dude, stay smart and strong brother.
by Zombies on August 19th, 2009
I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with the way you are feeling, but you'll just have to treat it like any woman who rejects you. Have a broken heart and move on with your life.
I am an Atheist. I don't believe there's anything morally wrong with adult aged, consented incest. Breeding, on the other hand, should remain outlawed as in brother-sister pairings the potential for your children to come out as little inbred retards is very high. So don't do it.
by SwampoO on October 1st, 2009
or contrary to what everyone else says, why not give it a shot... not what I'd likely do but I wanna hear how things turn out after
by Tom on August 19th, 2009
If you really want this feeling to stop, you can actually talk your mind into changing the way you are thinking. People do it all the time to lose weight or to stop smoking. If you believe something strongly enough and you concentrate on it, you can talk yourself out of having these feelings. Since you didn't rant and rave about me suggesting you talk to a pastor, you might have some faith in God in your heart. If so, you could say a prayer every day asking God's help in changing you. If you are sincere, it will happen, but you have to truely believe that God will help you. He already knows what you are thinking anyway, and has forgiven people for a whole lot worse. He doesn't care what you were or what you are, He only cares what you want to become! Please understand that I'm not trying to push religion on you, I'm just concerned for you and want to help in any way I can.
by lonelydragon on October 1st, 2009
Contrary to what others have suggested, the more you try to stop thinking about her, the more you'll be tempted to do so. It sounds like you need to get out more and socialize with other women. Once you find a mate, the urges may subside. Whatever you do, do not try to start a romantic relationship with her. Even if she feels the same way, your family never be the same if you got together and then broke up.
by swheaty on August 19th, 2009
Maybe get some counseling...professional counseling from one that doesnt know you, so that you could honestly work through what you are feeling.
by N/A on July 9th, 2010
you are so wrong with feeling you are not normal in feeling this way towards ur sister and wanting to have sex with her. most boys feel the same way with an attractive sister but just dont talk about it. the feeling of having sex with ur own sister will be an experience that you will never be able to match with another woman. the pleasure of incest and knowing your having sex with ur own sister will be a mind blowing experience for you and something you should definitely do if she will let you, and its a pleasure you will always remeber, and you will regret if you dont at least try
by N I C K on September 26th, 2009
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by Moongrim on August 19th, 2009
Stop obsessing about your sister.
Try talking to a counselor or priest.
Go find another woman who isn't related.
There are quite enough Republicans in the world.
by Tom on August 19th, 2009
The first thing you should do is find a steady girlfriend. This might make you forget the way you feel. If not, a good place to start is to talk to your pastor at church. They usually have good answers based on sound judgement, and can refer you to someone who can help if necessary. Plus, they are non-judgemental and are a heck of a lot cheaper (as in "free") than a psychiatrist, at least for now. It depends on how hard it is to change your mind.
by xMrsTaraCullen on August 18th, 2009
Dude don't even go there! That is wrong on soooo many levels! Why not move your attention onto another female, preferably not another relation... :
by Dave2009 on December 19th, 2009
Seems I'm a bit alone with having had a pretty intense relationship with my sister back when we were both in our teens, me 15 and her a year older. It was really an amazing thing, in that I had been so secretly in love with her for years and hung on her every move, her being so insanely beautiful and such a teen glamour girl, but never dreamed my fantasies would become real . But they did one rainy day when we were home alone and things just progressed to romance as we were talking as she was getting ready for a date and getting all dolled-up. I made some comment about how lucky her date was and she just turned to me and said the words I'll always remember, "Want to get lucky too?" With that she simply leaned into me and kissed me fully on the lips. From there was no stopping either of us and we made love as if there was no tomorrow. It was heaven and lasted for the next few years, until we both went off to college and built our own lives. Through our twenties we would occasionally get together again for a night or two, sometimes more when we could.
Neither of us have any regrets and often laugh at the insanity that what we did is supposed to be wrong. There was no harm to anyone and what we had was so incredibly intimate. I know I'm now supposed to defend what we did, but I really don't feel the need. Leaving insane religious beliefs in the trash where they belong, what we had was nothing but love and lust realized, and just as natural as any other union.
Dave
by Just Me on November 7th, 2009
It really comes down to how you feel about it. If it's a moral dilema for you then you should turn your thoughts on to something else entirely. Also, know the risks about attempting to get sexual with her. It's not something that usually turns out in your favor. Even if you two have sex and it's great, it's usually going to lead to problems.
My advice is to not obsess over it but maybe keep it as a dirty fantasy that you never act on. There is nothing wrong with having this in your mind. Acting on it can be dangerous but just thinking about it once in a while as you jerk off isn't all that bad.
by koszyl on October 24th, 2009
You should get some Psychological help! This is not normal ok! The feelings you have with wantinh a sexual relationship with your sister! Weither your adopted or not!
by Catherine on October 21st, 2009
Stop it, you love your sister thats natural...Go out and start dating, I think your too involved in the home with her...If you can go to conseling you should, these are not normal feelings...
by bloodlylilcorpse is back on August 19th, 2009
I would try to see a counselor, and found what they would recommand.
by josie III on August 19th, 2009
Since you already know it is sick, and you can reasonably assume that your sister would think it was as well, and since you are not being forced to think about it, much less do anything about it, why not just let the idea go? Other than torment yourself, what else are you going to do?
by Anonymous on July 12th, 2010
It's certainly not uncommon for a brother to be sexually attracted to his sister - I don't think I'd consider that "sick". The REAL question is how does your SISTER feel about YOU ! Have you TALKED to her about your feelings ? Does she SHARE them ? Is she NOT interested ? At 18 and 21 years old you're BOTH at an age of consent so the QUESTION is does SHE have an interest in CONSENSUAL sex with you ? If she IS interested I don't see anything "wrong" with some experimentation - and MUTUALLY decide just how far you want things to GO ! If she's NOT interested you need to ACCEPT the fact that she isn't and find ANOTHER outlet for your sexual desires. I'd suggest you CAREFULLY approach her for some conversation in a way you won't do any DAMAGE to your relationship with her if she's NOT interested ! I had ORAL sex with all THREE of my sisters - it WAS consensual AND mutual curiousity and desire - I wanted to go FURTHER than oral sex but respected their wanting to LIMIT our activity to oral sex only - and it was GREAT sex - probably partly DUE to the fact that is was "forbidden" - or "taboo" sex ! I also had sex with my Mother - she wanted to do it ALL so we DID - again as consensual and mutually desireable sex - and in SOME ways it was the BEST sex I've ever had ! There just IS something about the "taboo" of incest sex that makes it SO pleasurable ! I wish you ( and your sister ) the best WHATEVER you two decide to do about your feelings !
by AFreak on July 12th, 2010
talk to her about it, she says yes, you're golden brother.
by LittleWhiteSock on May 25th, 2010
Um, just.......don't tell her and she'll never know......what she don't know won't hurt her.....ohh man....I just really don't know....ask your mailbox and it will tell u everything....that was really pointlesssssss....4 real, idk.
by Knight9415 on May 23rd, 2010
As long as you are adults and can understand what love is there is nothing wrong in what you are feeling. Most of us go through life either alone or as a compromise with a complete stranger. Don't give up something real because the rest of us don't understand it. I am 32 and crazy in love with my 34 year old sister. I always wondered why my girlfriends used to resemble my sister and why she would always chose guys that I had so much in common with. We often just lie on a couch watching movies togther and playing with each other. Sometimes we cuddle in her bed or my bed together and talk about all our stories. I love playing with her beautiful silky black hair. But when she looks at me with those beautiful black eyes, I can see that she is so proud to have me as her younger brother. Her eyes are filled with admiration and love for me. I can but resist kissing those luscious lips of hers and then it as if she just takes over. We are so very gentle with each other and we take our time some times the whole night and some times right through the next day. It feels so safe, so real, so unselfish..I remember how she would stand by me when I was a little boy and got into trouble in school. I remember how I held her hand when her date let her down in high university. All the while we were realy saying to eachother "why do you have to worry when I am here...?" "who else do you need when I am here my love..?". But that is not possible..so my advise to you would be if you love her..then love her..but if its just a teenage fantasy then get some help.
by layzee on July 19th, 2010
go go go
by bittu12 on August 3rd, 2010
heyy i think that love is blind and it is very common nowadays to fall in love with sister ...the very same condition is also here ,,i also like my cousin very much and she too like me...but she can not express there feeling as is scared about the world .I want to ask to the people in this world that loving sister (not of same blooded) is right or wrong ..if wrong then why it is wrong?
by The Last Remnant on November 6th, 2009
Its not sick, you just need to leanr to ocntorl your urges, and talk to her about it, hey she might feel the same way
by Texas Tomcat on November 3rd, 2009
Get you a Globe paper with a celebrity. and wank off to rid your feeling off your sister to save yourself from insanity.
by Tom on October 21st, 2009
@AFRIENDOFJ:
I looked at your post. There were a few flaws in your thinking:
1. Where does it say in the New Testament that God lives in a crafted temple? He may have in the OT as a matter of convenience to prove His existance to people that had to see to believe, but now His kingdom is the universe.
2. Matthew 25 did not limit the teaching only to the poor and suffering, it just said not to ignore them, as was the custom in those days. The Gospel is for everyone, even the rich. Remember Jesus' talk with Nicodemus? He was neither poor nor suffering. I can drop a few more names if you're still not convinced.
3. I agree with Luke 14:26-27,33 - but what you wrote after that about crafted temples with double entrance doors is simple nonsense and has nothing to do with Luke 14. There is no point made here.
4. In the paragraph about 1,000 christian religions, you contradict yourself by saying Satan does not care which religion you belong to as long as you stay in religion, and then the contradiction, "So stop shopping because they are all of Satan."
5. Then you go on to say "but they claim that the only HYPOCRITES that He was talking about was the Jews," but you don't mention who "they" are. Who exactly claims this? Not me. And even if so, who was Jesus preaching to at that time if not Jews? So again, what's the point?
6. In Matthew 15:14, Jesus didn't say that ALL religious leaders were blind guides, he said the Pharisses were. And He was right! And the religious leaders of today didn't exist then, so how can this judgement apply to them? Today's clergy are nothing like the Pharisses of Jesus's time!
7. Then the rest of the rant appears to be just gibberish and I couldn't see any further points to be taken.
Don't get me wrong, I respect your opinions, but they just don't hold up to reasoning. What exactly are you trying to say? That religion is wrong? That religion is right but all clergy are hypocrites? That the Bible contradicts itself, or that you contradict yourself?
You must be trying to say something, but I think I'll leave this thread now because you seem to be acting against my biblical beliefs.
by Djinn on October 19th, 2009
How very interesting. I have to ask is this your real sister? Because if she is adopted or if her Mom married you Dad then I guess you can go for it. If it is your blood sister then I recommend leaving go to the military or college somewhere away from home. This was a common thing that slave breeders used to bank on in the country back before the civil war. They would separate a slave brother and sister at birth/childhood and then arrange for them to meet years later. They would mistake their blood bond for love and procreate. The hope was that they would create strong mongoloid children. There are stories of slaves bread in this fashion that could rip tree stumps out of the ground with a bear hug! +2
by Fed up of Boys on December 6th, 2009
just bang her dude.
Can. I see my Step moms boobs and touch them
Any advice
by Thuglife41 on January 26th, 2012
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Is anyone else really turned on right now?
by Ytrehafj12 on January 26th, 2012
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is it ok that incest and dog sex stories turn me on but never done any of it?
by rayj23 on January 25th, 2012
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I want to have an incestuous relationship with my sister, how do I convince her?
by OtakuPerv on February 5th, 2012
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How old were you when you had incestious sex? Did you like it? And if yes, did you continue to fuck your family member(s)?
by Little Abby, and proud of it! on February 2nd, 2012
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You're reading I think I'm in love with my sister, and I'm so confused. I'm 18, she's 21. I always thought she was so pretty, but in the last 2 years I've started feeling a way a brother shouldn't feel about his sister. I know it's sick, what should I do?
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Great answer..
by Catherine on November 7th, 2009