Dude don't even go there! That is wrong on soooo many levels! Why not move your attention onto another female, preferably not another relation... :

The first thing you should do is find a steady girlfriend. This might make you forget the way you feel. If not, a good place to start is to talk to your pastor at church. They usually have good answers based on sound judgement, and can refer you to someone who can help if necessary. Plus, they are non-judgemental and are a heck of a lot cheaper (as in "free") than a psychiatrist, at least for now. It depends on how hard it is to change your mind.

If you really want this feeling to stop, you can actually talk your mind into changing the way you are thinking. People do it all the time to lose weight or to stop smoking. If you believe something strongly enough and you concentrate on it, you can talk yourself out of having these feelings. Since you didn't rant and rave about me suggesting you talk to a pastor, you might have some faith in God in your heart. If so, you could say a prayer every day asking God's help in changing you. If you are sincere, it will happen, but you have to truely believe that God will help you. He already knows what you are thinking anyway, and has forgiven people for a whole lot worse. He doesn't care what you were or what you are, He only cares what you want to become! Please understand that I'm not trying to push religion on you, I'm just concerned for you and want to help in any way I can.

Since you already know it is sick, and you can reasonably assume that your sister would think it was as well, and since you are not being forced to think about it, much less do anything about it, why not just let the idea go? Other than torment yourself, what else are you going to do?

Stop obsessing about your sister. Try talking to a counselor or priest. Go find another woman who isn't related. There are quite enough Republicans in the world.

Maybe get some counseling...professional counseling from one that doesnt know you, so that you could honestly work through what you are feeling.

I would try to see a counselor, and found what they would recommand.

I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with the way you are feeling, but you'll just have to treat it like any woman who rejects you. Have a broken heart and move on with your life. I am an Atheist. I don't believe there's anything morally wrong with adult aged, consented incest. Breeding, on the other hand, should remain outlawed as in brother-sister pairings the potential for your children to come out as little inbred retards is very high. So don't do it.

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Contrary to what others have suggested, the more you try to stop thinking about her, the more you'll be tempted to do so. It sounds like you need to get out more and socialize with other women. Once you find a mate, the urges may subside. Whatever you do, do not try to start a romantic relationship with her. Even if she feels the same way, your family never be the same if you got together and then broke up.

or contrary to what everyone else says, why not give it a shot... not what I'd likely do but I wanna hear how things turn out after

I don't have much answer for you, but I can tell you that you are not alone. I'm 23, and I have 4 sisters. Around the age of 15 I started having feelings towards my sister who is 4 years younger than me (half-blooded). Over the years, it's progressively gotten more intense, and I've had more dreams than I can count about her even though I KNOW that it's NOT ok. We've always talked about sex and stuff like we were just buddies and I feel like she may think the same way, but it's just so taboo, I've never been able to bring myself to say anything. We're very touchy and the tension is ridiculous sometimes, but that line is there. I've had a couple serious relationships, and a good number of flash-in-the-pan women that come and go, yet nothing has changed about how I think of my sister. I've often found myself wishing we were not related at all. There is nothing you can do really, in the end it seems to be one of those fantasies that most people have for a rock-star for example. Just one of those things you want, but know it's out of reach and won't happen. There's plenty of fish in the sea, don't let this eat away too much at you dude, stay smart and strong brother.

How very interesting. I have to ask is this your real sister? Because if she is adopted or if her Mom married you Dad then I guess you can go for it. If it is your blood sister then I recommend leaving go to the military or college somewhere away from home. This was a common thing that slave breeders used to bank on in the country back before the civil war. They would separate a slave brother and sister at birth/childhood and then arrange for them to meet years later. They would mistake their blood bond for love and procreate. The hope was that they would create strong mongoloid children. There are stories of slaves bread in this fashion that could rip tree stumps out of the ground with a bear hug! +2

Stop it, you love your sister thats natural...Go out and start dating, I think your too involved in the home with her...If you can go to conseling you should, these are not normal feelings...

@AFRIENDOFJ: I looked at your post. There were a few flaws in your thinking: 1. Where does it say in the New Testament that God lives in a crafted temple? He may have in the OT as a matter of convenience to prove His existance to people that had to see to believe, but now His kingdom is the universe. 2. Matthew 25 did not limit the teaching only to the poor and suffering, it just said not to ignore them, as was the custom in those days. The Gospel is for everyone, even the rich. Remember Jesus' talk with Nicodemus? He was neither poor nor suffering. I can drop a few more names if you're still not convinced. 3. I agree with Luke 14:26-27,33 - but what you wrote after that about crafted temples with double entrance doors is simple nonsense and has nothing to do with Luke 14. There is no point made here. 4. In the paragraph about 1,000 christian religions, you contradict yourself by saying Satan does not care which religion you belong to as long as you stay in religion, and then the contradiction, "So stop shopping because they are all of Satan." 5. Then you go on to say "but they claim that the only HYPOCRITES that He was talking about was the Jews," but you don't mention who "they" are. Who exactly claims this? Not me. And even if so, who was Jesus preaching to at that time if not Jews? So again, what's the point? 6. In Matthew 15:14, Jesus didn't say that ALL religious leaders were blind guides, he said the Pharisses were. And He was right! And the religious leaders of today didn't exist then, so how can this judgement apply to them? Today's clergy are nothing like the Pharisses of Jesus's time! 7. Then the rest of the rant appears to be just gibberish and I couldn't see any further points to be taken. Don't get me wrong, I respect your opinions, but they just don't hold up to reasoning. What exactly are you trying to say? That religion is wrong? That religion is right but all clergy are hypocrites? That the Bible contradicts itself, or that you contradict yourself? You must be trying to say something, but I think I'll leave this thread now because you seem to be acting against my biblical beliefs.

You should get some Psychological help! This is not normal ok! The feelings you have with wantinh a sexual relationship with your sister! Weither your adopted or not!

Get you a Globe paper with a celebrity. and wank off to rid your feeling off your sister to save yourself from insanity.

Its not sick, you just need to leanr to ocntorl your urges, and talk to her about it, hey she might feel the same way

It really comes down to how you feel about it. If it's a moral dilema for you then you should turn your thoughts on to something else entirely. Also, know the risks about attempting to get sexual with her. It's not something that usually turns out in your favor. Even if you two have sex and it's great, it's usually going to lead to problems. My advice is to not obsess over it but maybe keep it as a dirty fantasy that you never act on. There is nothing wrong with having this in your mind. Acting on it can be dangerous but just thinking about it once in a while as you jerk off isn't all that bad.

just bang her dude.