ANSWERS: 3
  • It's out of your hands. I know you want to help your friend, but sometimes we can't fix their problems for them. They treat her like dirt because she acts like she thinks she's not worthy of better treatment. Maybe try to find her a guy who also has low self-esteem so they have something in common. After 5 years I think something drastic would have to happen to her in order for her to feel better about herself.
  • ...maybe she has low self esteem cuz you reassure her she does. ...just be her friend and stop tryin to save her. shell figure it out... why dont you guys go work out at the gym togather, go running....do a diet (by diet, I mean eat healthy and get the metabolizm really workin) check out different suppliments for alertness...it will help with her whatever it is that makes her low self esteemed... ...all these are esteem boosters. shes gotta work from the inside out, you cant give her things from the outside and think shes gonna take them in.
  • 5 years is a long time. You may be enabling her. She craves attention through self pity so she shoots herself in the foot by dating scum and she knows you will be there to give her the attention she needs. Now that is just a possiblity. Only you know for sure what she is really like. In the mean time get her to analize every guy she ever dated and think back what made have been clues that they were scum. Either way she is either clueless of needs attention. But make it clear that no guy with any real value will value her till she values herself first. Good Luck

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