Im 15 hes 22 i really loves me he really loves me and i dont know what to do yes im going to wait till im 16 but should i make him wait or tell him to move on

First of all, you cannot make him wait. Whether or not he waits is his choice. Secondly, I do find it a bit disturbing why a 22 year old would be so interested in a 15 year old. The differences in emotional maturity and development at that age is rather vast. I think you need to do a lot of analysis on this relationship and see where it stands. Thankfully, waiting will give you time to do that.

simple. tell him to move on. he most likely will after wards.

Ok at first you should make it clear what are you waiting for?If you are taking time for it its ok give yourself some time.But are you clear from your side that he really likes you.And do you belive that its not just a crush.What will happen if you wait till sixteen will your love for him will mature or what.Just think maturely its the question of your life if you are realy confused then give him some more time.

If he really loves you he will wait till you are at least 20. With schoolwork and stuff you are not ready for the big Love right now at your age. You still have to meet more guys, do something with you life, before going for the big Love!
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Well...I don't think you should tell him to wait i mean if you DO have feelings for him why not go for it? i have the same situation as you too.. But i mean it all depends on how YOU feel not what anyone else feels or has to say cause at the end your going to be with him! i think you should just go with how you feel! and goodluck!

Kid your 15, this guy is interested in your body, not you...sorry but your better off without that experience, trust me youll be ashamed if you go through with it. besides what are your conversations like? I am 30 and stay in that range because 15 year olds anoy me, not to be rude but I am just trying to shine some daylight on the male perspective for you.

If i can be honest, where is your mother? I would bet a million dollars that your mother was just a teen when she had you. You need to understand that you are special, and you deserve more than what she had, and even though she may have issues of her own, she still wants you to have more than what she did. Any 22 yr old who is interested in a 15yr old is a pedophile, and all he wants is sex. You need to value yourself. You need to rise above your situation, get an education, and better yourself so that you dont have to repeat mistakes that your mother made. Sex is sex and just that, love is not sex, or the hope to make some 22 yr old happy by having sex. If you need someone to talk to email me maxwellandme@hotmail.com, you are gonna make a big mistake

16 isn't a magic number, try 18 and even then you may be too young.... but 15... thats just wrong.

You have a lot of growing, maturing and you will change in the next 3 years.

A grown man looking at a teenager under the age of 18 and looking for a relationship with them is a pervert. He has something wrong emotionally, either he has been hurt by too many adult women (as in the case of my cousin...) or he wants a girl he can mold and control (as in the case of my father... which didn't turn out how he expected... hahaha).

Either way, you need to stop it now. He is expecting things out of a relationship that you are not ready for, and if he says he'll wait, he doesn't mean 3 years. For this particular age range it's not the number of years between you, it's your age that is the difference. If you were 18 and he were 25, ok, not as big a deal, but you are a CHILD.

Right now it is infatuation for you, you cannot love this man the way that he thinks he should be loved. Right now you are flattered that an older man is taking an interest in you, and you are feeling older and more mature for having an older man take an interest in you.

We all like people being interested in us, but for you it needs to wait. You aren't old enough to have a relationship with someone your own age, more or less a person who is 22.

Take my advice and end it, don't start it, walk away, tell your parents that this 22 year old is taking an interest you and let them deal with him.

You have your whole life ahead of you, don't be so quick to mess it up.

Don't confuse love with sex. Though the two can go together it is not obligatory.

Make hin wait and then you'll see if he's in it for the love or the sex

You are too young to be even considering serious love thing..its just a puppylove and ur mistaken it as "The Love" dear cant blame you too young to know the real thing... but love takes time.. dont rush it 16 is still a tender age... if your guy is persistent on getting that'Love " he's just not the right one girl... when you get older you would realized that you've been silly think about it. Girl you are just at the start of your wonderful life.. Enjoy your youth.. Take one day at a time.

Are your parents divorced? Children from divorced families are generally easier prey for those who know how to take advantage of young girls looking for attention. And you don't want to be with those who know. Are you looking for someone who "cares"? It ain't him. He cares about nailing you and moving on. If he really cares about you he would leaver you alone because you are frickin too young to be spreding your legs for anyone who shows yo interest. Take pride in yourslef girl. Don't give it up to anyone (it becomes less and less valuable). Give it to someone who really respects you and cares about YOU (not being between your legs). q:)

Its hard to imagine a 22 year old with a 15 year old. While it is not my intention to interfere in your personal matters, I think he just wants one thing. Maybe I'm being too judgmental here

you really need to take your time. age doesn't matter, after both parties are in their 20s but until then, it really does. i don't mean to seem mean, but someone who is interested in someone as young as you is a bit of a creep. i dated some older guys when i was your age (3 or 4 yrs older) and they were all creeps. and i regreted being with them. so, remember, you're young, you have plenty of time to experience love, etc., you should just make good decisions for yourself.

Tell him to move on. 16 is still too young for a 22 yr old.

I have no reason to doubt you could have a healthy sexual relationship with one another, but I guess you should only have sex with him if you feel ready (and have the appropriate contraceptives).

Make him wait. If he trully loves you he would understand.

also on another note
If a 22 year old is interested in a 15 year old they are either a predator or too immature to get a real woman.

What does a 22 year old have anything in common with a 15 year old? Im 23 and the thought of me being with a 15 year old is DISGUSTING!!!! *puke*

he'd wait if he really loves you

you could be together anyways except that you should set limits and try not be stupid about it

whats the worry if he really loves you but if he is rushing you then thats !#!@#$@#$@#

he has to know you are 15 and very young

nothings stopping you to spend time together but if he wants more i think you better remember yer fifteen and still too much to learn

Personally, I think a 22 year old man that is seeing a 15 year old girl is only after one thing! a Young, unspoiled body And a young, impressionable, easy to impress and romanticly naive girl that he can dominate.
My advice to you would be not to continue with this relationship. Just my opinion.

I don't understand the question, can you rephrase it? It's kind of well... erratic. In any case age 22; it's a bit above a 15 year old ideal dating age isn't it?