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  • i don't think saying hi is a big deal, now if you were like don't talk to her, and then he went off with her for an hour to converse, then yeah you should be upset, but saying hi? really?
  • Uhm.. no. You shouldn't. How childish is that? He's at a family gathering, out of his comfort zone, trying to be nice to everyone, and you're going to get upset at him for saying "Hi" to your sister? He was being polite. If you don't want him to talk to her, don't put him in a situation where he may have to. The fact that you have issues with your sister does not mean your boyfriend should have to be a part of it.
  • NO ... You took him to the reunion ... YOU did NOT tell him NOT to speak to her , did you ? So why be upset, just bevcause he said "Hi" ..it isn't like he ask her to come home for dinner ... get over it ... +5
  • no he was just being polite - if he got really chummy to her and wanted 2 spend more time with her then yes my brother did some awful things 2 me and i told my partner he still spoke 2 him - well he dont now as i never see him anymore thank god but if we met at a gathering he wouldnt ignore him but he wouldnt chat to him
  • To the contrary you should be glad that he is willing to put on a friendly face to your family rather than make trouble with them. You are on the outs with your sister now but probably won't be later. AND as a member of your family she deserves a certain amount of respect and deference which he gave her. . His behavior honors you, not the other way around.
  • You are having issue with him being polite to your family members? Saying hello is not really "talking." You're blowing this completely out of proportion. While you're at it, you may want to examine all the energy you are putting into shutting out your sister.
  • Maybe he just thought it was one of those family things that will blow over and he was thinking ahead. If you ever get over this thing with her, you wouldn't want your family to think you're bf is a rude asshole would you?
  • Next time you see him, you kick him right in the baby makers. Eff that guy in the face for being polite. Tell him next time, he should slap her in the face and call her a stupid whore.
  • Let me see if I understand this...you bring your bf to a family gathering, he exhibits courtesy and friendliness, and you are outraged about this??? You better get a clue, Friend, for guys with inherent good manners are very rare these days. Its known as "being polite". Your bf was preserving the amenities with your family in a public gathering. His actions merit appreciation, not condemnation. You would do well to study his example, especially if you want to keep him.

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