Sorry about the link. I tried to edit the question to make it work right. Here goes. http://www.womentowomen.com/menopause/postmenopausal.aspx

Ya know my own mother told me when I started to read things about menopause to take half of what you read and trash it, the other half is deep within yourself being........Altho the link is a good read, I assure you going through menopause for a woman has notthing to do with what a "male" thinks or feels. It is all about the women herself and if that is the "voice" within her so be it, but it is not the end all of her most valuble life living. Having started the process myself, I could careless about what it means to a male for Christ sake I am the same person just going through a body change and perhaps the viewing of certain awareness changes as well. MY sex life is fantastic and my husband is most aware of what is happening and supports me by knowing that this change in me is not about him but about nature and the female body. . Men go through change as well yet we call this "the mid life crisis". Yet you don't see to many of US females crying the blues about what happens in their mind or bodies. We deal with it which makes me realize why we women are the stronger of he sexes!!! :O) (Just had to add that last line):O) . Like it or not thats my opinion. I wish you a great day.

It means that she can say and think...I don't care what it means to a man. Who says post-menopausal women don't want sex? The only generalization that can be made here is DO NOT GENERALIZE. Cristiane Northrup said something interesting here. Referring to many seniors who become invisible to young folks, baby boomers will not become invisible because of who they are busy becoming. I hope that's true - because I'm on the way.