I am in the same shoes as you buddy. I am 22 and I have asked 3 of my male friends if I could suck their dicks, but every one said no. They are straight, but I mean, how could you turn down a blowjob? Ugh!! I still have yet to give or receive oral at all. I think about it all the time and want to do it more than anything. But if I were to give you any tips, give me call, I'll be happy to be your partner, haha, j/k. Seriously though, do not force them if they are not comfortable. Start out a conversation like, 'can I ask you something personal? I don't know how to say this but I really want to...' I am running out of guy friends to ask, so I need to start finding new guys myself, haha.

well, are you male or female, and is the other person male or female?

That's really hard! Is it because you like them or is it just the cock you're after. If it's just cock, why don't you just go online and hook up with someone?

I'm bi and I love to suck cock. I've offered head to a lot of my friends, and other guys from my school and neighborhood. I've found that the following approach works best. Your request should have three basic components: 1) tell him what a good friend he is, and how much you like and respect him 2) tell him that you would like to show him how much you appreciate having him as your friend 3) tell him that you would gladly give him a blowjob if ever he wants. Notice that there is no actual asking. Notice also that the words "gay" or "bi" are never used, especially in reference to him. Realize, too, that he will probably not return the favor. Don't even ask him to. If he wants to, he'll suggest it. Realize that when you give yourself to a friend like this, you are committing yourself to blowing him whenever he wants in the future. A lot of guys will want you to blow them practically every day. Realize that, when you make an offer of this sort, you are obligated to give him as much pleasure as possible. A straight guy is doing you a huge favor by letting you suck him off. Show him all due respect, and let him take charge. Offer to lick his feet and balls clean to show how grateful you are for the opportunity. Always carry out his orders with a smile. And, of course, always swallow his cum. Always build up his ego and self image. Constantly compliment him, tell him what a great body and penis he has, and generally make him secure in his masculinity. Call him "sir" if he likes that. Never pleasure yourself when you are blowing him. Concentrate on giving him pleasure. Some guys will want you to jerk off in front of them when you are finished blowing him. Do so if he wants.

Start slow, watch some porn with him, get to jerking off with him. After that, especially if you're both a little lit, just kind of ease into it. If he's willing to jerk off with you he may be willing to let you blow him. Just tell him that you've wondered what it'd be like, and that you'd rather it be with him because you trust him so much. If he says no, never mention it again. In all likelyhood he'll come around once the ideas implanted unless he's harcore hater.