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  • firstly, you get to know yourself, and become happy with the idea of being alone - it is not necessarily a bad thing, and in fact, it sounds better than being in the kind of abusive relationships you have experienced! Will the world stop turning if you never get in a relationship again? There are plenty of single people out there who are fulfilled and happy - ok, so the sex ain't great, but it has got to be better than mental and physical abuse! Be yourself! Be happy! Get out there! Do things for you! Get your hair and nails done for YOU, not for any man! Cook yourself nice meals, go visit a museum, build your confidence in yourself - and never let anyone hurt you again - you deserve better!!!!!
  • Get off the internet.
  • Buy some new clothes, get rid of everything that reminds you of "them", soak in bubbles, and take yourself on a weekend away to the place you enjoy most! Don't ever give anyone that much hold over you again...there are somepeople who thrive on someone who is sensative and tender hearted. I call them "psychic vampires". They use up every emotion you have, and when they're finished, they move on to the next victim. There are many out there who have veen through the same thing, and some find a great deal of comfort in support groups. Stay strong, confident,and believe in yourself !!! +5

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