Its my understanding that single women love to go after married men. Is it true? If you think it is Why? If you dont have you heard this before?
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Most women run for the hills when they find out a man is married. Its just asking for trouble. If he can cheat on someone that he pledged himself to, then what's going to stop him from dumping or using his current mistress? I haven't heard about the average woman going after married ones unless they are filthy rich or something like that and the woman would have to be pretty shallow in the first place.
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I have not heard that and I hear a lot in my profession. Most women are smart enough to know that if a married man is willing to cheat on his wife to be with you then he will also cheat on you with someone else.
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I think it is only true of single women who have a low self esteem or who have other issues (e.g. commitment issues). Many single women would not. I have not heard it before as a rule, but I have seen it happen.
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Personally, I do NOT think that this is true. Shucks, I've been married THREE times now, and not ONCE have any single woman "came after me." (Of course, I look like a NIGHTMARE brought to life--but that's besides the point!!!)
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Yes, I've seen and heard of this often...some single women prefer to have a relationship with a maried man, so there is safe sex involved, (no std's), and if you're a professional woman just seeking companionship, the less attachment the better. If a man will stray, ( shouldn't happen, but it does) I for one hope the wife never finds out.
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I have heard that. I think it's something that is more common with younger people. Their libidos are all fired up and They are more apt to cave into temptation. I also think they talk about the reasons they love their mates more than older people do. The girlfriend hears about what a good lover her friend's partner is and it adds wood to the fire.
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..hello....*raising hand*...single woman here, and I want to go out with single guys thankyou.. To pursue another womans man is not for me, my married friends would disown me for sure.....
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Not only single women do that, also single men. It is very simple and it has nothing to do with love. Some people just love to hunt something that is already taken by someone else. Some do it consciously, I'd say those people are just plain mean, and some do not know why they find married men or women attractive, but in fact it is just that they seem unreachable which makes it very interesting. It is just a human thing :P Wanting something that is not yours or wanting something that is actually out of reach.
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Its true. Woman see guys in relationships and want what they don't have. I desire to be with girlfriends of my friends, but of course I would never impose. Its just a part of human nature.
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no, thats is not true for most. However, there are those with exceptionally low self estteem, who NEED that extra ego boost of taking another womans man. it isnt enough to get a man, they HAVE to take him from someone to feel worth anything. Its very sad really because these women are usually VERY attractive and just dont believe it.
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I am single and I would never go after a married man. That is just wrong.
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Yes some women who do not want true commitment no matter what they say go after married men. Some are just home wreckers, some just like the danger, some like the facade that "oh he's going to get a divorce", some just want the guy period and don't care, some just want the sex and married men are better friends with benefits. Many reasons, multiple reasons. Some do actually divorce their wives for their mistresses.
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Some single women do and I think it is because of the saying: All single men are either gay or married. They have no chance with the gay so they go for the married.
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The qualities that make a man desirable for marriage for one woman probably are seen by other women. So, why would it be surprising? In some cases, it could simply be "gene shopping." A woman may cheat with one man while "going steady" or even being married to another. She may perceive the long-term partner to be the better parental figure, but the "fling" to have the better genetic traits.
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only if they are insecure and have no respct for others.
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wow where did you hear that. i am married and haven't had any single women after me. no its not true. there are always a few bad apples out there and those are the ones you hear about. i mean would you rather talk about the single women flaunting her self at a married man or a married man that is a good caring and loyal man. most like to talk about the first because its tintillating to gossip about.
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