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  • Sounds like it. Does he also not want to to anything in general (with anyone)? That could be another telltale sign.
  • sounds like he coulbe depressed again.. or maybe he is not as into the relationship as he once was.. for your sake i hope that is not it... i would talk to him see if it is somehing beween you and him. see if he is still doing his normal activites.. if he still is i would say it has something to do with the 2 of u... of he is not i would go more towards depression and nicely and be comforting and supportive ask him if he wants u to help him get better so you can begin to enjoy your realtionship again.
  • As I see it, you have two options. One is to sit on your hands and simply stop calling, then see what happens. The other is to approach him directly and ask what's going on, without necessarily expecting to like his answer. Certainly after a year and a half you have a right to know.
  • If he has closed himself off like you describe, he definitely sounds depressed. You should ask him about getting help. If he refuses, you must decide on whether you can ride this out with him or not.

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