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  • No its definitly not ok. Its still commiting adultry. But its also not okay that you guys never have sex anymore so something has to be done. Whether it bothers you enough to get a divorce thats up to you.
  • You say talking about your needs goes over her head, but before you go to a prostitute, have you tried talking about HER needs. Some women lose their interest in sex as they get older but many more find it increasingly uncomfortable as things "dry up" downstairs....trying not to be too indelicate perhaps she isn't getting any pleasure out of it anymore and ends up sore and in distress. Talk to her about things you can do to make it more comfortable for her and tell her that if she really doesn't want to be intimate with you anymore that you intend to seek the services of a prostitute. You may be surprised - she may want to try again rather than have you go to such an extreme to soothe your frustrations.
  • I'd say if you've genuinely talked about the whole subject & you've reached an impasse then maybe, with your wife's consent.
  • If she is unwilling or cannot have sex with her husband she should give him permission to have sex with another woman. This is how it was up until a couple of hundred years ago back to and including the Biblical days. This was one of the reasons for multitable wives and concubines.

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