Sounds like you either need therapy or viagra or both. I'm not being sarcastic either. Hell, that's what I would do in your situation.

Relationships are not sex. Sex can be a part of relationship, but sex alone does not a relationship make. You don't like oral or anal, then I have to wonder why it is you get a hard on with a man? Being with a man or the idea of being with a man does "something" for you - of course without knowing what you are thinking about with a man we can't say what that "something" is. Humans are complex beings there are many emotions and underlying issues that make us who we are. I'm assuming that you are a closet homosexual who is forcing yourself to be straight and are making these boundaries to meet other people's expectations for you and not meeting your needs/desires/wants. That is a bad thing, and I'm sorry society places this on your shoulders. My brother is out and is happy with his life, I love him still although I don't understand what he sees in a dude. But I neither condemn nor hate him for being gay. "liking" oral or anal is not just as easily said - there is a pitcher and a catcher - meaning you may not like receiving anal but you may like giving anal - you may not like giving oral, but you may like receiving oral. I am hetero but have experimented with a dude once (To figure out about my gay brother why he is he gay anyway?) - I find that closing my eyes and picturing a hot babe giving me oral instead of the dude worked for me - a mouth is a mouth if you know what I mean. Maybe that can work in the other direction for you? Most of the sex takes place in the brain. What we are thinking, what we imagine and our expectations of the sexual encounter has far much more to do with the outcome than who or what we are doing. In the end there is a lot more to this than just not able to get a hard-on. You can get a hard-on with a dude but not a gal, you want to be with gals - obviously you are not wired that way and you need to accept that. If it helps I don't hate you or condemn you either way - find happiness where you can - life is too short to spend it alone. Peace out.

Not to be snide, but I think you're fucked. In the figurative sense, obviously.

If you don't want anal or oral, there is always manual - mutual masturbation.

Probably the only way to break the cycle would be to make a psychotherapy. With this, you could: - accept you sexual orientation, whichever it is - find some ways to practice your sexuality Alternatively, you could make a sexual therapy.

If you can't get an erection with a woman but you can get an erection with a man,then you are not a heterosexual man you would then be a bisexual man who is in the closet, who needs to get medication so you will be able to have sex with both a man and a woman and after you have received your meddiction from your doctor you then should be able to have sex with a man and a woman at the same time as a man who is bisexual.

My oh my what a lot of fuss we can make over our sexuality!! You are what you are - enjoy it - as someone else said here, life's too short to be frustrated and alone!! If you are gay, or bi, so what? Human sexuality is not a black/white thing, but many, many shades of gray inbetween!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Forget about what 'people' will think....if you want to be with a man, explore it; just remember to always play safe!!! You will be glad you did - and will feel so much better about yourself!!!!!!!!!! as for not liking oral or anal, have you tried both? have you had a man perform oral sex on you? surely that would be pleasant for you........have you tried anal where you were the recipient or the giver? if getting it, was it done in a slow, relaxed, loving way, with lots of lubricant? if you gave, were you considerate of your partner and their pleasure, too? taking your time, etc.??? You must explore all these things to find out what you really like and want..if you are truly bisexual, then more power to you!!! Just take your time and again, always play safe!!

Did you try Vitamin B complex? (particularly, B-12) Did you try with another women? Generally, I am very sexual, but once a woman played with my penis about an hour - nothing helped, it just not erected on her.