Why is is that i can get my best friends boy friends and my mum a partner but i cant find that someone specil for me is it becaus eim ugly or im fat or is it just that im anoying please coment and give me advice

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• right on!

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  by Psycho the kid on March 12th, 2007

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• your right thanks hunny

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  by hellz_the_goth on March 14th, 2007

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• yay thanks have u found yours yet

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  by hellz_the_goth on March 12th, 2007

• im not sure, im only 13 lol, i think i have.. he's pretty amazing.. But i thought that last year also.. :/

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  by Miss. Tandra on March 12th, 2007

• Being that you are young you will think that many times I'm sure before you do find the right one. I think time and conflicts will tell. I think the truest measure of how good a relationship is how well conflicts are handled. Don't be in a hurry tandra just date who you like and when you get old enough to actually consider marriage I think you will also be able to figure it out a bit better.

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  by Valparaiso on March 12th, 2007

• yea i know what u mean.. but hey if they're interested in you and your interested in them why not give it a whirl? u neva know what could happen... :)

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  by Miss. Tandra on March 12th, 2007

• Yeah although I think you are slightly too young to be dating personally I agree if you are both interested go ahead and date them. The only thing I will say is don't go into it expecting that you have found THE ONE. Because you don't know. Its easy to get ahead of yourself and thats true for everyone. I know I'm seeing someone right now and she really seems to like me and I like her thus far but we've only been on one date with a second one planned so I'm just reminding myself to just chill out and play it by ear.

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  by Valparaiso on March 12th, 2007

• my parents found each other in 8th grade and have been happily married about 25 years now, and havent once considered divorce

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  by Miss. Tandra on March 13th, 2007

• Yes and my parents got engaged 72 hours after they met and have been together for 27 years in April. But those things are rare and don't happen for many people. If he is the one your outlook on the relationship isn't going to change anything. I'm just saying scale back your outlook a bit you know? Cause I mean when you think you've found the one and something happens and he isn't then it hurts you worse then just taking it as he's a guy you are seeing that you kind of like.

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  by Valparaiso on March 13th, 2007

• Now that i think about it every single guy i've dated has had a different personality. i know its kinda sad but i've had more bf's that my cuzin and she's 21. Even tho i still believe in dating at this age, I dont think we should be out....doing stuff this early. My best friend(s) are already to that stage..and sometimes they get hurt in the relationship and it makes me think even more.. Ok, This is getting her/us ready for what we're going to have to deal with

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  by Miss. Tandra on March 14th, 2007

• No you don't have to deal with it you choose to deal with it. No one is making your friends go farther then they should (I assume you mean they are having sex) They are choosing to have sex and I guarentee they are keeping it from their parents. Here is the really big secret that a lot of people your age just don't get and God bless you if you do. Your parents put restrictions on you because they love you and they don't want you to get hurt. But a lot of people your age who have never lived on their own, never had to buy their own food, shelter, or clothing, never had to pay an electric bill know more about the real world then their parents who have done those things and have been doing them for years. But the reason you have had so many boyfriends is because you are so young. They are too immature for it and you might be too. Now I don't think this is doing long term damage to you but you have to recognize that short relationships are a sign of immaturity on one or both parts.

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  by Valparaiso on March 14th, 2007

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