Seizures TERRIFY me! I'm not epileptic...And I had a dream that my epileptic friend had a seizure last night and we were in a room alone...I can't even think about it...What can I do to stop the dreams? How can I talk to her without offending her?
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Why don't you just find some way to ask her what the procedure should be should she have a seizure while in your company. What should you do, who should you call, etc. I think that feeling prepared would help you relax a little.
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Pretty much what Jenniferocious said I am an epileptic and I know how much my seizures can freak a person out. I learned that over time. I remember when I first started college. I did not tell my roommate that I was epileptic. I figured I would get around to it. He found out when I had a seizure. He freaked out a little. I had another roommate that I told up front and he said he wanted to film it for his art class. I disagreed. Personally the best approach I have received is the "I know I am not supposed to stick a spoon in you mouth, but what should I do?" Also, My seizures are combined with anxiety attacks. Sometimes it is real helpful to talk about ANYthing other than the possible onset of a seizure.
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Just tell her that you love her and want to know how to go about when and if a seizure occurs. That you want to be prepared. Your fears are portraying in your dreams. There is little that you can do. Make sure she is safe from hitting herself with anything in the area when in seizure. Also, don't put your hand in her mouth. Ask her how long seizures normally take and if she is taking medication. If you call 911 which hospital should she be taken. Buy her a medical bracelet showing her medical condition and allergies to medications. But most of all, ask her what she wants you to do. My dad had seizures and I would secure him from hitting himself and call 911, even though most of the times, they will arrived after seizure is over.
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