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  • well its mostly religious purposes in the beginning. now its just " you wont marry me so you dont love me" type of thing.
  • I personally think it's a conspiracy; but some people find ways to make it work.
  • it is real you might have rushed into last two. But when you connect with someone who has your best interests at heart you will feel the difference from the last two..Also do not rush into anything,let the relationship grow over time at it's own pace..
  • Marrage is what you make of it...just like macro economics...LOL + 5
  • sorry for your failed marriages, there is no single reason why marriages "don't work". my marriage is a wonderful thing that has added so much good, joy, and fulfillment to my life, and we are just ordinary people, who love each other and want to be married forever. my marriage is real.
  • it depends on what side of marrige your standing on....being divorced you havent found your ideal guy yet.Dont give up on the idea because there are some swell fantastic guys out there(us married woman havent taken them all yet)
  • Marriage can be bliss but it takes a lot of hard work. You have to put time and effort into your marriage. It is something that must be worked on every day.
  • truefully i think marriage is kinda of a waste of time because people don't need a piece of paper to tell them that they are in love.you can still have the same type of love even without that piece of paper. the divorse rate is the second highest in the world. the usa wants people to get divorsed just so they can make money off it.
  • Well,you didn't marry me or you would still be married.
  • don't go believing that marriages are anything like they paint on tv, they take alot of hard work and if you both love eachother you can work through most things. the 'happy ever after' IS BS though!!!!!
  • It is very real, it's not for everyone and it is a lot of work.
  • Expecting it to be ideal and that you have to be the perfect husband or wife according to some standard set forth by this entity called "society" is probably one of the greatest contributors to divorce. It's real, ever changing and requires a lot of love, respect, patience, trust, tolerance and acceptance.
  • I don't think society does paint marriage as an ideal picture - I hear more about divorce in the media than marriages! Marriage is a partnership and it isn't all romance and roses; it is damned hard work at times and on occasion it may seem like too much hard work. Those people who can't hack it get divorced! If you have been divorced twice perhaps you should ask yourself why you got married and why you subsequently divorced - maybe you are one of those people who is in love with love - once you have all the material things that go with it, and the settled routine, the novelty wears off and you lose interest?

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