by A on July 8th, 2009

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Would you ever try to be friends with the s/o of someone you helped cheat? Why or why not? Also, isn't that like a slap in the face? Like, "Sure, I helped him/her cheat, but let's be friends now anyway." Does this seem wrong to anyone else?

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by laaayla on August 18th, 2009
As wrong as wrong can be. Yup! Yes, your right in thinking that this is a slap in the face. Adding insult to injury.
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by Sunshine n Lollipops on July 13th, 2009
what do you mean, "helped cheat" ?

as in being the other woman? and then befriending his s/o? because that is so wrong, awkward, and weird

altho - life is weird. my ex was developing a close friendship with a female coworker. he told me i had nothing to be afraid of, had us meet, so i didnt suspect anything... she was befriending me even tho they were having sex... of course i didnt find out till way later they had the affair.

those are the people that i cut out of my life because yes its wrong.
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- I agree. A girl tried this with me. I do not talk to her anymore at all.
  
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  by AnonymousGirl on July 13th, 2009
- of course not
  
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by Stepper on July 13th, 2009
I wouldn't help someone cheat in the first place.

I may help them find a mature way to leave an unsatisfying relationship, but cheating is childish and unconscionable.

If the person on the recieving end of such a breakup were to desire a friendship, there is nothing about the situation that would keep me from one.

In the situation that you described, that is the second of two "slaps in the face"...the first one being to help someone commit infidelity on someone else to begin with.
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  by AnonymousGirl on July 13th, 2009
- Holy AG, I'd say no. But it is still pretty fresh for me. I'd want to tell them off. But time helps with that I guess. And as long as it is up to you and you want to be friends with them, I'd say go for it. Maybe just put salt in their coffee instead of sugar once though.
  
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  by SuzieQ on July 13th, 2009
- I didn't really read the third paragraph that well. The first, second, and last one are very good. A girl did this and wanted me to be friends with her after. When I'd get mad at her and act out on my anger, she'd call me immature. Really, it is not and never was worth being friends with her at all. In a twisted way, it could be argued that it was, but only in a way that taught me not to trust people like that.
  
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