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  • continuation to above. I cant get over the feeling that the decision I make for my family is going to be wrong and I have this Perfect person who I have tested many of many of times still stands next to me and I cant completly let him into our lives due to the fear of being hurt again.
  • I am sorry about your situation. What exactly is your question please?
  • My question is how do I know that he is the right person and feel comfotable letting him into our lives?
  • Sounds like a terrible fault to have. You have to learn to trust again but it won't happen unless you risk something. If you don't let down your defenses with him you'll never know if he's the one. I know you don't want to be hurt again but do you want to let go of the one person who appears to be right? There are two options... keep the wall between you and never have what you're looking for or risk it and know for sure if he's the one and very possibly the person who can fill your life with the happiness I know you're looking for. Not everyone is like your ex. Put that behind you. Unless you do you'll never be able to move on. I understand how you're feeling but you're letting your past control your future.

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