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  • There are a few options. First, prayer. Second, avoid being around the other guy. Third, negative reenforcement when you think about him. Put a rubber band on your wrist and everytime you think of him, snap it. If you still feel like you have been unfaithful, you could just make love to your husband more or talk to your husband and tell him about your problem
  • I don't think there is anything wrong with having these feelings as long as you don't act on them. Honestly, it is pretty normal and healthy to occasionally feel attracted towards someone else. When properly channeled it can make your marriage even better. Use those feelings of attraction to be more affectionate towards your husband. It might be worth it to ask yourself what you find so attractive about him too. Is he a good listener or does he have some other trait you find appealing? Sometimes honestly examining why you are attracted makes those feelings easier to deal with. You said he is a family friend. I think it is pretty normal to feel affectionate towards anyone who is close to the family. Just remember there are different kinds of affection. Keep it in it's proper place and feel grateful that you have such a good friend. Please don't cut off the friendship. Good friends are rare and in all likelihood he doesn't have a clue what you are feeling. Does he deserve to be pushed out of your families life because you have a normal and I am sure passing crush? I bet you'd say no.

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