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  • Umm, well, my first love really really really really sucked. because i fell in love and it was REALLY bad, he never even turned and looked my way in the 6 years i was in love with him! im not making up BS, i was seriously in love with him for 6 years! :( makes me laugh at myself because i wasted so much time!
  • Yep, and it makes me cringe every time.It was just a bad idea from start to finish.
  • I feel very sentimental about it. It was a high and low of my early life and a formative, insightful experience.
  • I do indeed. It was very beautiful, special and much of it does make me smile!! Still see him years and years later and I could never love him or be with him now because we are such different people to then. We grew up and apart together.....
  • My first love, like so many of my friends, is dead. I have fond memories, tainted with a little sadness.
  • I just broke up with my first love a few months ago. We were together for 4 years. Last night I saw him to give him a birthday present and found out a lot of terrible things about our relationship, but still I think I will look back and smile on the memories for some reason. I think it will definitely take awhile to do that, but eventually I will.
  • I smile. We were young and stupid but we really did love each other. I find myself thinking about him a lot and I havent seen him in about 14 years.
  • It makes me sad to remember my first love because through a weird twist of fate or hatred towards me she became my sister-in-law, married to my best friend who is also my brother-in-law because he is my wife’s brother. It makes me sick to see her now and I have a lot of built up hatred for her since then.
  • Ive loved plenty of boys even though Im so yuoung. I thought they were all my true loves. My current boyfriend isnt my true love. I love someone else deep down inside, and I know who he is. I still love him. He is my best friend. So to answer your question yes I do and it makes me smile but yet it makes me sad knowing we will never be together.
  • I do just more than smile, I am still with my first love and we'll be tying the knot soon :D
  • Yes and it makes me sad. I found out that a few years ago he committed suicide.
  • i'm right in the middle of losing my first love for the second time. i have never felt a pain like this before. i'm not smiling now, but give it time and i'm sure i will. good guy, good times.
  • You bet she makes me smile, Why because we have been married for 18 years now. I married my first love.
  • Neither, it was over ages ago, therefore so was any feeling attached to it.
  • yes i do. we were young and i was dumb. recently got back in touch with her. when i see her, my heart skips a beat like it did back then. it make me hope that, maybe, just maybe.........
  • Through the rose-colored glasses of idealistic memory, I can't help but smile.
  • it makes me sad because i havent had a relationship like that in awhile
  • I remember and it does neither. I was 16 and that was a long time ago. There were good things about it and of course the eventual heartbreak of a teenager, but you live and learn. I guess you could say there is a smile in the end in that it changed how I approached relationships after that. Now that I am married, that first love is nothing in comparison with the love I have for my husband. Just a memory...
  • Just makes me want to cringe lol.
  • I think about him alot. But the realtionship was horrible & im glad it finished. It doesnt make me smile. But you never forget your 1st love!
  • My first love was the blond one out of Abba and it does make me sad as after all these years I've still not had the chance to chat her up.
  • yeah it does
  • Oh yes, I remember him. It makes me smile in a sad way. I have many good memories of him. We were loved each other for about 12 years. But I made a big mistake in my life and eventually lost touch with him.
  • yes, quite too vividly i must admit. remembering makes me sad but it also makes me smile. it makes me sad because it's over with, and i cant ever relive those memories but it makes me smile because those were the best moments of my life..the boy i fell in love with took my heart and showed me what it was like..it was even more special because we were each other's first loves, and that doesn't always happen to people. we were lucky kids.
  • I remember my first stab at it and I was way too young and immature........I guess it makes me sad.......Because I told someone I loved them when I really didnt...........Man, she was pissed.
  • Unfortunately, I do and it hurts like hell after almost a decade.
  • Yes im still dating him 3 and a half years later :D and it makes me very happy so I guess thats a it makes me smile. :D
  • it makes me think what the hell was i doing? lmao
  • yea i remember him it makes me sad and happy. it makes me happy to remember all the fun we had but it makes me sad to think how he left me. we didnt break up on bad terms it was a religion factor. he lived with me for two years after we broke up we just never labled outselves g.f b.f after the break up. then he left one day cuz he started using hard drugs and he didnt want me to see him go down like that. then somehow we began fighting and now we have no contact. i still love him tho.
  • Yes I remember and it makes me both happy and sad.
  • Yes, he was a great guy. It makes me sad to think about him because he died at the age of 23. But when I think about all the good times we had, it makes me happy. There were lots of good times cause I've known him since we were in kindergarten. I miss him.
  • yeah i do remember her, what a shame.
  • Awwww My First Love... i met my first love about 9 years ago!! we were so off and on. I can't really say anything bad about him, because up untill about 6 months ago, I could of called and he would of done anything for me! Oh, he had so many dreams for me, and only if i would of listened! I still love him of course i do, he was like my best friend, I could of been having the worst day in the world, and just hearing his voice would make it all better! He was so comforting. maybe one day we will meet again! they say you never forget your first love!
  • I do remember him. And I remember him very fondly. :) He's someone that I will never forget as long as I live, for it is he that taught me what love was and how to love.
  • I remember. It used to make me very sad because for a long time I had big issues with relationships due to that breakup. Now I am 33 have a wonderful significant other and 2 children. I think about it sometimes but mostly remember that I was young and not emotionally developed at that time. You grow as you get older and the memories fade.
  • Sad, definately sad. I was about 8.. Some of you might say that at that age you don't know what love is (and according to my gf, I won't for about another 30 years :-/ ), but I had some strong feelings for her. Unfortuneately, I was bullied quite a lot back then, and I feared that if anybody (even my family) should find out, it would just get even worse. So nothing happened, and I wasn't able to do anything about it if I felt in love until I was about 17, when I realized just how many perfect opportunities had passed by because I was too shy. Now, on the other hand, I have a really, really strong urge to express my love to my girlfriend all the time, and well.. she hates it :(
  • from time to time I think of her, but not in a romantic way, I have been married for over 20 years and I love my wife with a passion, but I do catch myself wondering how she is, where she is, does she ever think about me? We were so young, we started dating when I was 17 and she was 15, and it ended 2 years later, but the memories are still fresh.
  • He turned into a jerk.
  • Yes I do and I still smile because he is still with me as we've been married for 35 years. I've known him since April 1969:-)
  • I do remember my first love and it makes me smile but also sad as he died of cancer last Christmas.
  • its a mixed bag; he was such a funny, happy-go-lucky guy but he ended up commiting suicide :(
  • It makes me smile! We had great times and we thought we would be together for ever and ever! But it was puppy love and we were soooo young. I am happy that my first love was a great guy and he found a sweet girl now.
  • Smile. Definitely smile. Although it hurt like crazy, she broke up with me in the kindest and most honest way anyone could imagine...so, it was also my first really poignant heartache. However, whenever I think of her, I still have nothing but fond thoughts. She forever set my sensibilities about love and life. Even though I fell in love again and have been happily married for over 25 years to a wonderful and thoughtful, loving woman....my first love is always there in a special part of my heart and soul that I can't and won't ever get rid of. It's impossible, it's perfect just where it's at. I was lucky to have her close to me for those four short months back in 1971. By a fluke, I saw her for the first time in 37 years just last year. My knees got weak and my head began to spin and I could not stop smiling for the life of me. My opinion is, one never "gets over" their first true love no matter what else happens in life. She's is the sweetest memory of my life. She'll never know it...nor will my precious family ever know it and that is the way it shall remain. It's perfect. That's why I smile. = )
  • it makes me sad as i still love him
  • Sad we're no longer together, but a lot of happy memories.
  • i do and it makes me sad cuz i see her every day and she is just perfect but life will be ok with out her i guess
  • Sad. My kids are 11 now and I take their crushes seriously.
  • when i think about my first love it makes me emotional but at thee same time it makes me smile.. And even though im in a new relationship and i have been for 2years, i still think about him and i wonder if he thinks bout me and our good times we shared together like the h0lidays and those summer nights and going to the movies every weekend dedicating songs to each other writting letters to eachother, him always being late to class cuz he would always walk me to mine lol the worse memory i have of him would have to be when we broke up and couple of months later seeing him with another girl uhg that really broke my heart that was da first time i ever felt so much pain in a weird way like i cant explain it it just felt like someone got a knife and stab my heart with it, even my trought felt weird i couldnt hold it in i just wanted to scream and cry like a baby that got their toy taken away horrible feeling..even though he broke my heart i seemed to forgive him i hold no grude dis is y it makes me really sad that we have no contact and that he acts like he dont knw me and i wonder y? i mean we didnt end it cuz of cheating or anything,, just one day he decided he didnt want to be with me.. i was 14 when we got together we lasteted for an about go0d year and a couple of months that was the first boy that ever made me feel the way he did i know i was young but i didnt care what anybody thought... ugh just so many memories in my head of what use to be sometimes i sit and think about it and i get emotional even though i love my boyfreind its just not like that relationship i had.. and its been like like 3 for 4 years i still rememeber lots of things i wonder if one day ill just forget??
  • yes, I was 15. It makes me feel sad because we were not allowed to see each other and had to sneak which made it more romantic. all we did was kiss. but I really loved him. I've tried very hard to locate him over the internet. I even still remember his exact birthdate but can't find him. When I do think of him, I long for him or at least the feelings we shared at that tender age.

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