I either do one or the other. I either focus all my energy at work, or I focus all my energy on chasing love. Do I try to find a balance that way, or is there a compromise that goes along with it?
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i understand you dilemma, my husband has the same problem..my only advise is to find a love that helps you relax and unwind, who appreciates how hard you do work..we (my husband and i) knew that his hectic schedule left little time for me when i too worked, between working sleeping, and cleaning the house, we resolved that one of us would be a homemaker..he had a huge financial advantage to me, so i stay home, and we are still trying to work at it, but love each-other too much to let anything get in the way of being together. good luck, it will come
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There is no reason why you can't have both (good job/career and love/relationship). You just need to balance your time and strategize/brain storm ways to create harmony in your life.
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I believe , as others have posted that you can have both. It is a balancing act though. You need to figure out what it is that you get from each. I am the type of person who gets more from love than I do from work but I do have to pay my bills and I take pride in almost everything that I do. Sometimes it can be hard to find a balance especially if you are torn between the two. I often use a website called www.FeelBetterNetwrok.com , where they have experts who give FREE advice on just about anything. It has helped me focus on what makes me happy and what gives me pride, and in turn helps me be able to focus on what encourages these feelings. I think you should check it out since I am no expert on this, but I have been through somethings very similar and was helped out alot.
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The compromise, which many employers and those looking for love would prefer, I'm sure, is to concentrate on work, while at work, and concentrate on love elsewhere. Of course, if you meet someone at work who MIGHT be a good match, this could cause a problem, but you MUST spend the majority of your energy on work while there, or you may get into trouble or fired. In most cases, work doesn't care if you find love... They want the WORK from you, and want you to do your job. Once you are away from work, throw the switch, and spend your energy on finding love, or relaxing. BTW: Even when you FIND love, when you are at work, you need to spend the vast majority, if not all, of your energy there. As I said, they want you to do your job. If you are mooning over someone instead, it could get you fired.
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