Do you think it is possible to fall back in love with someone that you had fallen out of love with? If so how do you think it happens and how long do you think it could take?
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yes. it takes time and effort. happily ever after does not mean they remained head over heels at all times. it means they loved eachother enough to remain together even durring the times they didn't like eachother. life long marriages are not left in the hands of emotion, they are bound by commitment and survive through extended bad times only because of that commitment.
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If you "fell out of love." with them in the first place... You never loved them to begin with. Do them a favor... save your indicision and nonsense and give it to someone like you, that doesn't know what love is. That way when either of you messes up, it is understood and expected and no one gets hurt. Leave the people you have already hurt enough... The hell alone! People are NOT for you flights of fancy and every whim.
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My wife & I were divorced & didn't see each other for 7 years, then she moved back into the area, bumped into each other & ended up married again. It's been 15 yearas this time, all great.
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My belief is that life is stressful and tough and we may think that we have fallen out of love when in actuality the problems in life and lack of communication were the culprits. When people are together for many years, this can happen. Being "in love" and loving are two different feelings. Love can grow deeper and stronger with going through the rough times. If some people have been together for a long time, they can feel like they have fallen out of love many times. If they weather the storms, they can learn to develop a feeling of love that is more solid.
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I think the timing depends on you. But I do belive it can happen.
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yes but only if both parties are committed to the process. first, both of you need to know your deal breakers, in the absense of deal breakers, it can be done. spend about 20 hours a week interacting with each other...if there are other people present it takes two hours to equal one hour of togetherness. examine your expectations and complaints regarding your partner...are they realistic and know that your complaints say something about you and not the person which are complaining about...examine what your complaints say about you. brush up on your problem solving and communication skills and apply them from this day forward-for the rest of your life. if there's something going on that distracts from or damages the relationshp, it has to go-it has to stop! you can't repair something ifyou are ripping it apart along the way. if you are committed to this process, it takes as long as it takes.
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