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by TIGAKAT on March 6th, 2007

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Im a female and my fiance never goes down on me.he says he just doesnt like doing it,well i think it's selfish and i do it to him cause i know he enjoys it,why not return the favour...at least sometimes

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  • by aznurse on October 29th, 2007

    aznurse

    So stop giving him oral sex. Women are too hung up on pleasing their men, that's why we fake orgasms.

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  • by alieninastrangeland on April 14th, 2007

    alieninastrangeland

    I have had the same problem for 33 years. I just gave up as when I ask why all I get is "oh, I do it sometimes" He gets head EVERY time. Don't make my mistake. Persist with the conversation and if necessary INSIST on knowing what the problem is. Life is too short ahd oral sex is such heaven, you deserve it.

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  • by frank peters on March 7th, 2007

    frank peters

    Hey, I am a male, and I think it is impportant, that if you are willing to please him with head, he should do like wise. If he refuses, then NO head for him. Why not try, to each do it to each other at the same time, that way, if he only goes lightly on you, you do the same to him. Why should one get the great service and not the other? Give to him only what he gives to you.

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  • by Kiss A Fat Babys Ass on September 25th, 2007

    Kiss A Fat Babys Ass

    Sounds like your boyfriend is an idiot. You deserve someone that will do that when ever you like. Myself and many othere love going down on a woman, he doesn't know what he is missing.

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  • by chrissylm37 on October 6th, 2007

    chrissylm37

    You need to stop going down on him and tell him you don't like doing that anymore. I'm sure he'll change his selfish additude.

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  • by flasher on October 8th, 2007

    flasher

    I've been going down on my wife almost every time we make love for over 30 years now. It's a regular part of our foreplay. I rub lotion into various parts of her body and kiss and lick her. Feeling her buns and pussy grinding against my face as I kiss and lick and tongue her is not only pleasing physicaly, but I also get an emotional high out of it just knowing that I'm bringing her that much pleasure. Sometimes she actually seems to vibrate. She purrs like a kitten. In all those years she's only had my dick in her mouth a half dozen times, and not for very long either. It's not because of my hygiene, as I almost always take a shower first. She's vague and evasive about giving a reason for not going down on me. I think that she thinks oral sex is dirty or perverse. She won't even kiss me on the mouth after I've eaten her out. I've often thought I should quit performing oral on her until she reciprocates, but that might mean that I would never get to taste her sweet pussy again, and I would really miss that. I feel sorry for you and your fiance, as you both are missing out on so much pleasure because of his selfishness.

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  • by sunshine on March 7th, 2010

    sunshine

    I feel bad for you, oral sex is a blast and it feels soooooo good. Do you think he would be into a three way. It could even be another girl, he could be pounding her while she is downing you. The best part is that when he has blown his load you and the other lady can lap away for as long as you want.

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  • by Mark Hardy on July 15th, 2008

    Mark Hardy

    Stop giving him oral sex. Negotiate with him to also consider your needs. If he refuse to give you, then you should too.

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  • by chui22 on March 4th, 2008

    chui22

    I have the same problem, ive been with my boyfriend for over 2 1/2 years and pleasure him regularly... and I think in our relationship, he has gone down on me maybe 10 times in over 2 years. I'm sick of talking to him about it becuase he just doesnt get it.... I don't know what to do

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  • by darksiderollerchick on November 24th, 2007

    darksiderollerchick

    i've thought about this a lot... and i have decided that if your partner isn't ready to put his mouth where the money is hes not mature enough for a serious relationship or even to have sex with at all.

    this is a real life example of give and take, and if he isnt willing to do equal work and assure equal satisfaction thats not a person you want to be partners with.

    like it or not, sex is a metaphore for life and he is falling short. get rid of him, hes a child and a loser.

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  • by Anonymous on November 19th, 2007

    Anonymous

    I think it's selfish, too!

    My boyfriend (of over four years! AAARGH!) won't go down on me. If he DOES (which is like, less than once a year since we've been together) he only does it for like, a minute... and of course he's always wanting ME to go down on him. Yeah, right! I really do enjoy giving oral sex, but not to him (since he refuses to reciprocate)!

    Anyway, 90% of the men I've been with before LOVED it and did it every time we'd have sex so I don't think this is a common issue with men at all.

    My boyfriend IS a selfish prick in just about every other aspect, too.

    I think we BOTH ought to go out and find new men. Pronto!

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  • by joebud on November 19th, 2007

    joebud

    I would eat pussy every day!!!! I love everything about it!!!


    There is nothing better than bringing a woman to a climax with your mouth and having her squeeze the sh*t out of your head with her thighs!!! Wow, I'm getting a boner just thinking about it....

    BTW, I would drop the guy. Any man too selfish to eat pussy is probably not someone you want to be tied to the rest of your life.

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  • by Anonymous on November 18th, 2007

    Anonymous

    I am not sure you should consider marrying this guy. You certainly deserve better. There is nothing as heavenly as taking in the marvelous scent before you start French kissing a woman's most intimate part.

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  • by I m Out of here on November 8th, 2007

    I m Out of here

    I am a man and I "LOVE" performing cunnalingus! I believe if a man doesn't like the taste of a woman perhaps he wants a penis in his mouth instead. As a hetrosexual male I would give up all other forms of sex before I would stop going down on my woman. It's perfection!

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  • by Anonymous on November 7th, 2007

    Anonymous

    my boyfriend is the same way. I hate it. I don't go down on him anymore because I feel cheated. I pretty much have to beg him to do it. It's been 1 year since he has done it and it drives me crazy!

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  • by cyberseduced on September 25th, 2007

    cyberseduced

    He obviously doesn't like pussy. I don't like dick. If you ever need someone to go down on you...I'm the one.
    I would seriously think twice about the marriage cause eventually you are not gonna be satisfied.

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  • by stillcurious on February 21st, 2010

    stillcurious

    How in the fuck could any man not want to go down on a girl? The sound of a girl cumming is one of the best things I have ever experienced.

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  • by easyrider on November 14th, 2010

    easyrider

    please call me, is that motherfucker sick? eating pussy is # one

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  • by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on October 6th, 2007

    Sheriff Raff -Answerhag

    maybe he will marry you and then bring a bi girl into the bedroom for you... who knows....

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  • by prof on November 18th, 2007

    prof

    sorry that is happening. I don't know what to tell you. If it where me I would be down there for hours unless you wanted me to stay longer

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  • by Uncle Lizard on March 4th, 2008

    Uncle Lizard

    i think he's the first lad i've heard of that doesnt like to give oral sex... wierd... i just dont get turned on unless i give a woman oral.. i find it better than sex..

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  • by Craig_Lyon on December 15th, 2009

    Craig_Lyon

    I wouldn't say he was being selfish unless he insists on you doing it to him and in this case yes he is. If you choose to do it to him and enjoy it or don't mind it then that is your choice. No one should ever feel forced into doing anything they don't want to do and if you respect your partner then you should respect his feelings too. He should however be willing to discuss the issue and make a compromise with you. Try talking to him to see what is putting him off. Talking about it and explaining why it is important to you might be just what he needs to convince him to give it a go. If you make it easy for him by showing him what you want, explaining what you would like done then he is more likely to open up to you about his reasons against it. If after all this he still won't even talk about it and explain his feelings then I would then say you have a right to say he is selfish then. I personally love going down on a girl and would always do it for any girl I was with. I have had girls who were not into returning the favour and I was happy to still give it to them and enjoy pleasing them. I hope what I have said is of help to people reading this and sometimes just talking about something and more imprtantly listening is all it takes to solve even the most complex of problems.

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  • by kiwisoccer on March 15th, 2009

    kiwisoccer

    Hate to say it but he sounds very selfish most guys are more then happy to go down on a lady knowing how much pleasure it brings her
    You should have a new rules he only gets oral if you get oral after, might sound mean but at least he should be able to get the message how badly you want him to go down on you!

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  • by labeeb xaman on January 10th, 2008

    labeeb xaman

    Some people like boobs more than a pussy. u wouldn't suck ur husband boobs would u? Although I might do the pussy job when I get married if my wife wants it so it could be mutual, I think suckin dick could be compared more to sucking boobs then pussy. just an opinion.

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