Is it ok for a 13 year old girl (not me) to be fingered. i dont think it is whats ur opinion?
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I might vomit. I don't think it's a good idea because at 13 knowing your mind and your body and your heart completely is nearly impossible. Any sexual activity that takes place before a person is ready can have scarring effects on that person's self-esteem. I wouldn't be easily convinced that a 13 year-old is ready for something so personal.
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I think sex play is good for married people but that is not the kind of answer you are looking for.
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No too young for any sexual activity
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Despite what people's emotion's/governments/television may tell them, this is when adolescence begins, and so often also when sexual experimentation will begin. Whether or not it's okay is probably mostly a function of the relative ages of the participants.
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At this point in your life, your fingers need to be turning pages in a book you're supposed to be reading. Get your head into your education and not fingering so much. I mean tell "your friend" that.
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In all honesty, no I don't think that its ok. Unfortunately I am one of the people who had been fingered at 14, and I do regret my decisions now. Unfortunately in todays world girls think they have to be sexy and put out in order to get guys attention, and also unfortunately in todays world, its true, because so many girls are willing to. I personally blame tv and media these days (mtv, magazines (they don't help girls self image and poor self image can also make a girl turn to sex. Girls these days usually have lost their virginity by the age of 14.
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Thats real young to be putting yourself out there in that way... Especially if the guy/girl isn't of equivalent age. But it could be worse too...
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meant to put this in the comments my bad
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was he an adult and did he work in a ware house because if he did they been doing it for years.i owuld tell g mommy and let her say dont worry about it we do it all the time
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Not at all. A 13 year old girl is too young to be getting sexual.
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I would recommend against it. While it's pretty close to playing doctor the male involved will almost certainly be considering whether he might talk the female into something rather more serious. . Once a kid starts having sex the kid will tend to keep on doing it. It's not the end of the world, but it is the start of a LOT of difficulties.
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I don't think fingering is that serious of a thing, and a 13 year old is getting near to the point that sex is a big thing in life. I wouldn't say it's "okay", but I wouldn't condemn it. It's not the worst thing you can do. If it were actual sex or oral sex, then I'd say they were too young, but fingering isn't like...as extreme. BUT, I don't think it's a GOOD thing. Nothing good will happen. No matter the guy, if the girl is 13, they're probably only after one thing. All it will do is make the girl seem easy and dirty her reputation really.
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I don't like the idea. It seems to me like it's skating on thin ice. It's only a short step from fingering to genital contact, and most 13-year-olds don't have the maturity or self-control to back off once they're on fire.
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There will be those who disagree, but as long as it is consensual and not forced I see nothing wrong with it. If she says "No" then No means NO! it is that simple. Today most girls of 13 are very savey about sex from fingering to intercourse. Many have had intercourse by 13,so it is all a matter of if she wants to or not.
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You have to realize that the world is becoming increasingly sexual and things that may seem vulgar to most are inevitable. Yet, under suck circumstances, the girl has to realize as well that what she is doing is above her maturity level and most likely poorly thought out. If she does realize this and takes into account that magnitude of her actions responsibility, judgment should be suspended as the maturity level fits the action.
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I think it would be ok if you could draw the line there, the idea of it sounds gross ew a 13 year old getting fingered, but at 13 people are often experimenting with masturbation, so if there is self control then fine But from my personal experience the first time i was fingered at 19 it was hard to not take it further, and i did take it further on our next date because i never had self control, i dont regret it cause i love the boy whom i am still with, but i think at 13 sex is a little to young to be had at that age
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if you have to ask, the answer is no.
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Next he will want to poke you with his dick then it will be inside you.
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If she is getting fingered she is ready to have sex cause at that age you melt like butter. Look into Birth Control or better yet some Self Esteem and Self Respect classes...
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I think that really depends. First off, some 13 year olds are fairly mature and understand more than their peers while some people twice that age or older have no clue and are less emotionally mature than many preteens. Therefore, I don't see the number of candles on the birthday cake as a reliable measure of maturity. Second, there is the situation. If it's a 13-year-old and another kid about the same age then it's not as bad as if the other person is, say 30. Third, it depends a bit on the culture. Here in America, we consider anybody under the age of 25 to be naive and anybody under 18 doesn't know a damn thing about anything and shouldn't even know about certain things until they are old enough to vote. Kind of funny when you consider that we used to marry as young as 10 HERE IN THIS COUNTRY and IIRC, Texas allowed marriage at 12 until fairly recently. That doesn't even get into what other countries and cultures are like. However, we all assume that EVERYBODY here on AB is an American and since most of us are, we view things through American eyes with a total disregard for other perspectives.
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i think its great if shes the one doing it
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Uhm ... that all depends on wether its that persons own fingers or not.
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I certainly thought it was okay when I was 13. I feel for you parents out there
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Yes. Most girls I knew when I was 13 fingered themselves, even if they wouldn't openly admit it; I knew plenty of girls who engaged in sexual activity in middle school, from digital to oral to vaginal to anal sexual activity. I think slapping an age on sexual activity as to what's "normal" is extremely dangerous. It's like asking if 10 is too young to get your period or if 30 is too old to lose your virginity; it's not that simple. People are different and desire different things. If you're 13 and you want to engage in sexual behavior, then that's just as "normal" as not wanting to.
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I think its okay if the person doing the fingering is of a similar age, at least under 18. I fingered my first girl when I was 6-7 years old. There is nothing wrong with it, but I think it is illegal for anyone under age to do anything sexual.
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Well, i lost my virginity at the age of 13....it hasn't messed me up in anyway. If (not you) feels ready to be fingered....then get fingered....but only if it feels right and you feel that you, yourself are ready.....i think 13 is a good age to start sexually maturing.
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When I was 13, I was probably playing with legos or something. I don't think it's the best thing to be doing at that age (trust me there's plenty of time for stuff like that), but I don't judge.
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Happened to my friend. She's holding up fine, but that is just not right.
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Uh.........so did I mention that telling some thirteen year old that having sex or doing sexual things is wrong because 1. Just because it worked out for you doesn't mean it will for her and 2. You are not her parent. The entire debate was about the lack of responsibility shown by Austinius in saying that it was fine, when he had no idea who he was talking to and no hard facts to prove it would not be detrimental, just his own experience. Resting his opinion on his own experience is fine but his own experience is individual not global, so whomever he is talking to could say "Ausitinius said it was fine" and make a bad decision. He was in the wrong. It's too bad that other people can't see it but at this point it doesn't really matter because it's already been said.
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wow. i had to read this a few times to make sure i got it right... a 13 year old girl is way too young, although there would be no physical damage, there would probably be mental damage. even though you wouldn't notice it for a few years.
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im not giving a 13 year girl my opinion on such topic good luck
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I don't think it's ok.. but, I had been fingered by 13
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are you older than 14 the min age for this site is 14
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no to young wait 2 more years and then you can do what ever the fuck you want ' peace
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I think it is wrong, it's abuse for gods sake!! Children should not be subjected to sexual gestures. If the child is merely experimenting with herself (masturbation) she shouldn't be made to feel ashamed but she ought not allow other people to perform such acts upon her, if she is gaining sexual curiosity she really ought to have a chat with her mum who will tell her that masturbation is perfectly normal but that you need to be respectful of your body and do not allow others to abuse it.
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yes if she wants to be
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I think you are a pervert on this site asking about getting fingered and being a 13 year old girl again. I am going to report you. That's my opinion.
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No. If she's doing it herself, because that's what 13 year old girls will do, that's fine. But she's not old enough for anything like that with somebody else.
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