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Ditched his mom on mother's day and lied about it?... A preview of your future with him if you stay.
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This could mean just about anything, his mother could be a real witch. Be open minded, he may have a really good reason.
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That would be a deal breaker for me. Either you are dealing with a really immature and callous man or you are going to have a beastly mother-in-law.
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I would agree with Wishfire, but then again if she's that horrible that he's justified in not wanting to see her, she should be out of his life completely, and not kept around to where he would have to lie like that.
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I don't see anything that bad that could stop a person from honoring them even for a few minutes on their one big day. Its the accumulation of all her years as a mother, provider, caregiver, teacher, healer of all boo-boo's & many other things.
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Not seeing his mother is no big deal but the fact that he has to lie to her is. If he is an adult he should be able to be honest.
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Maybe his mother is knifing. Maybe they had a horrible relationship in the past. Maybe she molested him as a child. Maybe worse... Like Wishfire said, keep an open mind. He could be a great guy.
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Not necessarily. I question the lying but there could be good reasons for staying away from his mother.
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I really wouldn't call it a dealbreaker, but it does raise a red flag for me that he may be a liar, even to you.
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